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A girl I work with is about to move in with a boyfriend, I would like her to think it over, this man wants to only pay 500 a month rent , he says he has to many bills and the current place he lives is only 475 a month, claiming he is broke, this is the only way he can move in together , he makes more than her and the rent is 1200 a month, I think she is being played,
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Based on the information you have provided, it seems that you are correct. Only you know whether you want to say something to her, or just be the friend she may need in the future. |
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I would tell her to agree to it, but make him put the lease in his name. Then tell him you can't afford it!
"play" the "player"! It's not fool proof, but I would do it haha |
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it's useless...some people just enjoy being f*ed over and over and over again it is annoying to witness though
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how long theyve known each other
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no good deed goes unpunished
she needs to think hatd on this 1. |
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If they are working at having a long term relationship He needs to come up with at least 3/4 of the rent. If he realy earns that much.
And if she is just there to be his roomate/ lover... Well, maybe she needs to keep living under her own roof... |
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475 a month? Where the hell does he live, the YMCA? Sounds like he just wants to live in something that doesn't have tires.
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Come on now! Maybe hes just a cheap person. I know I can be at times, but still put the lease in his name!
Even If she doesn't rip him off after that. It would be her safety net. She could back out anytime she wanted to |
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it is her place he is moving in to
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it is her place he is moving in to |
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Does she have kids and he doesn't or anything like that?
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A girl I work with is about to move in with a boyfriend, I would like her to think it over, this man wants to only pay 500 a month rent , he says he has to many bills and the current place he lives is only 475 a month, claiming he is broke, this is the only way he can move in together , he makes more than her and the rent is 1200 a month, I think she is being played, I think you should move in with me |
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i have a question for you when will you email me back
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I am throwing out the red challenge flag lol
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Damn Girl it aian't your booty is your beauty
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A girl I work with is about to move in with a boyfriend, I would like her to think it over, this man wants to only pay 500 a month rent , he says he has to many bills and the current place he lives is only 475 a month, claiming he is broke, this is the only way he can move in together , he makes more than her and the rent is 1200 a month, I think she is being played, |
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Damn Girl it aian't your booty is your beauty |
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she has a child
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