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Topic: trying to help a friend/relationship
goddess_110's photo
Thu 01/24/08 09:28 AM
A girl I work with is about to move in with a boyfriend, I would like her to think it over, this man wants to only pay 500 a month rent , he says he has to many bills and the current place he lives is only 475 a month, claiming he is broke, this is the only way he can move in together , he makes more than her and the rent is 1200 a month, I think she is being played,

Britty's photo
Thu 01/24/08 09:30 AM

Based on the information you have provided, it seems that you
are correct.

Only you know whether you want to say something to her, or just
be the friend she may need in the future.

Eleslokos's photo
Thu 01/24/08 09:31 AM
I would tell her to agree to it, but make him put the lease in his name. Then tell him you can't afford it!

"play" the "player"!

It's not fool proof, but I would do it haha

bgeorge's photo
Thu 01/24/08 09:31 AM
it's useless...some people just enjoy being f*ed over and over and over againohwell it is annoying to witness though

jtitol's photo
Thu 01/24/08 09:33 AM
how long theyve known each other

dcrdnk's photo
Thu 01/24/08 09:35 AM
no good deed goes unpunished

she needs to think hatd on this 1.

glasses

inTyme's photo
Thu 01/24/08 09:40 AM
If they are working at having a long term relationship He needs to come up with at least 3/4 of the rent. If he realy earns that much.

And if she is just there to be his roomate/ lover... Well, maybe she needs to keep living under her own roof...ohwell

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Thu 01/24/08 09:41 AM
475 a month? Where the hell does he live, the YMCA? Sounds like he just wants to live in something that doesn't have tires.

Eleslokos's photo
Thu 01/24/08 09:49 AM
Come on now! Maybe hes just a cheap person. I know I can be at times, but still put the lease in his name!

Even If she doesn't rip him off after that. It would be her safety net. She could back out anytime she wanted to

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goddess_110's photo
Thu 01/24/08 02:59 PM
it is her place he is moving in to

jtitol's photo
Thu 01/24/08 03:07 PM

it is her place he is moving in to
ITS A TRAP

no photo
Thu 01/24/08 03:11 PM
Does she have kids and he doesn't or anything like that?

itsjustdave's photo
Thu 01/24/08 03:16 PM

A girl I work with is about to move in with a boyfriend, I would like her to think it over, this man wants to only pay 500 a month rent , he says he has to many bills and the current place he lives is only 475 a month, claiming he is broke, this is the only way he can move in together , he makes more than her and the rent is 1200 a month, I think she is being played,


I think you should move in with meblushing

johncarl's photo
Thu 01/24/08 03:19 PM
i have a question for you when will you email me backlaugh laugh laugh

irad8you's photo
Thu 01/24/08 03:20 PM
I am throwing out the red challenge flag lol

kidatheart70's photo
Thu 01/24/08 03:21 PM
:tongue:

sexxyandsingle's photo
Thu 01/24/08 03:23 PM
Damn Girl it aian't your booty is your beauty

TheShadow's photo
Thu 01/24/08 03:23 PM

A girl I work with is about to move in with a boyfriend, I would like her to think it over, this man wants to only pay 500 a month rent , he says he has to many bills and the current place he lives is only 475 a month, claiming he is broke, this is the only way he can move in together , he makes more than her and the rent is 1200 a month, I think she is being played,
Well the face that he told her he has to mant bills to pay is a really good sing that there is trouble coming. If you can talk to your friend and have an open conversation with her. Lay it on the table of what you see, but let her make her on choices.

TheShadow's photo
Thu 01/24/08 03:24 PM

Damn Girl it aian't your booty is your beauty
Hm, I wonder how many times she has heard that linelaugh laugh laugh laugh

goddess_110's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:19 AM
she has a child

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