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Topic: On being yourself......
Tobias1540 Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 781	Sat 01/19/08 11:20 PM
A couple times I have noticed on woman's profiles they say I am looking for a man who can be himself, or, I am looking for a man who is not afriad to be himself. What does that mean?

obillyo Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 1265	Sat 01/19/08 11:20 PM


maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Sat 01/19/08 11:21 PM
its code for be who i want you to be.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sat 01/19/08 11:21 PM
someone who doesn't put on a front to impress then when you get to know them they are diffrent thats what i think anyways

obillyo Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 1265	Sat 01/19/08 11:22 PM


lonelylover86 Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 38	Sat 01/19/08 11:22 PM
girls dont know what they want honestly lol its true ask everyguy!

obillyo Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 1265	Sat 01/19/08 11:23 PM
tru

AaronzDad Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 10182	Sat 01/19/08 11:24 PM
ALWAYS BE YOURSELF ...everybody else is taken.

Tobias1540 Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 781	Sat 01/19/08 11:24 PM
When I meet a woman I am interested in I am always myself, just dialed down a bit lol. I am one weird guy any woman who can see me at my weirdest, for the first time and still likes it is as insane as I am.

obillyo Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 1265	Sat 01/19/08 11:25 PM


BatCountry Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 1383	Sat 01/19/08 11:27 PM
Step 1: Admitting your weird.. Step 2: Find someone just as weird.. Step 3: Make sure that person is not more weird than yourself..

WhoIAm Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3909	Sat 01/19/08 11:32 PM
It means be who you are and be proud of that. It means don't be fake. Know who you are. Be who you are.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 01/19/08 11:32 PM
Step 1: Admitting your weird.. Step 2: Find someone just as weird.. Step 3: Make sure that person is not more weird than yourself.. haha words to live by

BatCountry Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 1383	Sat 01/19/08 11:34 PM
Step 1: Admitting your weird.. Step 2: Find someone just as weird.. Step 3: Make sure that person is not more weird than yourself.. haha words to live by Yep yep, its code lol

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 01/19/08 11:34 PM
A couple times I have noticed on woman's profiles they say I am looking for a man who can be himself, or, I am looking for a man who is not afriad to be himself. What does that mean? alot of guys ( women to) pretend to be something they are not... then later the truth comes out and the whole relationship turns out to be a waste of time. If you act like your true self from the very beginning, you will attract people that truly like you for you, not who you are pretending to be. Wow that was a lot fo words to type for a drunk girl lol

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 01/19/08 11:35 PM
Step 1: Admitting your weird.. Step 2: Find someone just as weird.. Step 3: Make sure that person is not more weird than yourself.. haha words to live by Yep yep, its code lol haha code huh?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 01/19/08 11:38 PM
There are a lot of idiots with no self confidence who have to be fakers. I'm not one of them

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 01/19/08 11:41 PM
Tobias I am sure sometime in your life you ended up dating a woman that had pretending to be someone she's not...

Tawnya72 Joined Thu 11/01/07 Posts: 140	Sat 01/19/08 11:46 PM Edited by Tawnya72 on Sat 01/19/08 11:47 PM
A couple times I have noticed on woman's profiles they say I am looking for a man who can be himself, or, I am looking for a man who is not afriad to be himself. What does that mean? I met a guy... and he came over for dinner, we ate, laughed and had a great visit. It was then time to clean up... So he offered to help me with the dishes... this happened on numerous occasions. Well things were good and after a while we did end up in a relationship and living together. One day I asked him if he would help me get the dishes put away as we had company coming soon? and he turns to me with this perplexed look on his face and says NO that a woman’s job. Guy's... this is ONLY one example... Im sure you have all been in the same place with a woman at some point...

Tobias1540 Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 781	Sat 01/19/08 11:52 PM Edited by Tobias1540 on Sat 01/19/08 11:56 PM
Tobias I am sure sometime in your life you ended up dating a woman that had pretending to be someone she's not... I do understand what you guys are saying, but I just guess I didn't think of it as being a big deal since I always am who I am.