I think that confident women scare most men.....and they really want a "yes" girl.........

Yes......whatever you say master

Geeeeeeeeeez Im afraid of me...........and I say yes to myself all the time!!!!!!

true be that .. I just nod in the mirror

Well .. let's clarify confident/independent/self-assured women here.

I definitely stand up for what I believe, feel fantastic about my self, and don't take sh*t from anyone.

BUT .. I am not, nor will I ever be .. domineering. BIG BIG difference. I never ever wanna be defined this way.

Nor controlling. I don't want to control a man, and if he let me I'd be long gone. Strong MEN are sexy as h*ll too!



Confident/self-assured/independent? Sexy

Domineering/controlling/loudmouthed? Total turn off



Remember .. sexy IS as sexy does ..........

Now, as Mel says in Brave heart ....


(((((((((((((((((( FREEDOM )))))))))))))))))))))

It's all good huh angel

Yep. And we also must remember that some women who seem vulnerable, very femme, caring, and sweet on the outside also have spines of steel and great strength of character, fortitude.

One doesn't have to be a ***** or act in a disrespectful manner to show strength and internal power.

It takes a very strong woman to choose to give her energy/power to a Man, or other Woman, for that matter.

As long as it is consensual, sane, and permanently harms none - its all good.

If it makes you HOT beyond belief, all the better!

BRAVA!!

Question for all the men of JSH


Are men afraid of confident, self assured, strong, I don't care what you think women?



Or do you prefer women that always needs compliments, not sure of themselves, weak women?

I am in no way putting down anyone I would really just like to know.


Another question......Do you think that women that flaunt all that God gave them....Is someone you would take home to mom?

Or just someone to salivate over?

One last question: Do you think the women that do flaunt it are insecure or secure with themselves as a woman?

Judy where have you been hiding.......

uhhhhhhhhhh gotta life woman. been livin it - workin it this afternoon packing the Christmas stuff.

Yes .. I know. It's the 19th of January. Back off.

I grew up around confident, self assured, strong, I don't care what you think women, so I feel very comfortable around the type.

I don't feel as comfortable around "weak", unsure of themselves women that always need compliments.

I don't mind women that flaunt it. I would take her "home to mom".

As far as flaunting out of security or insecruity, it depends. Some women know they're hot and love to show it off, others maybe hot, but flaunt for the attention, to be reassured that they are hot, which is a turn off to me.

Question for all the men of JSH


<Are men afraid of confident, self assured, strong, I don't care what you think women?>

I think the first three are fine, but why would I want someone to not care what I think?



<Or do you prefer women that always needs compliments, not sure of themselves, weak women?

I am in no way putting down anyone I would really just like to know.>

Just because a woman needs to hear what they need does not make them weak.


<Another question......Do you think that women that flaunt all that God gave them....Is someone you would take home to mom?

Or just someone to salivate over?>

Flaunt and being an outright slut are TWO different things.

I take home a woman that I feel is important to me....friend or girlfriend.


<One last question: Do you think the women that do flaunt it are insecure or secure with themselves as a woman?>

Depends on how they are flaunting...always in the eye of the beholder.

I grew up around confident, self assured, strong, I don't care what you think women, so I feel very comfortable around the type.

I don't feel as comfortable around "weak", unsure of themselves women that always need compliments.

I don't mind women that flaunt it. I would take her "home to mom".

As far as flaunting out of security or insecruity, it depends. Some women know they're hot and love to show it off, others maybe hot, but flaunt for the attention, to be reassured that they are hot, which is a turn off to me.

Hope this helps.

Hope this helps.

And men can tell the difference here too. I am extremely confident and I like to dress tantilizing occasionally. Men can tell that I am not doing it for attention, I am doing it to please myself. It makes me more alluring but more intimidating at the same time. I get it all the time, "I had watched you for many times coming in here but just knew I was going to get shut down if I tried to talk to you". I am a sweet person and I love to talk and laugh but I am not about the bull either so they must come right with it or don't come at all. I think they can read that just from my stance and actions. It is crazy how intuitive they can be sometimes. Gotta love em