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Topic: Flirting Advice
soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Fri 01/18/08 05:54 PM
bump into him...."oops I'm sorry sweetie" "Are you alright" Exactly! Creating the incident for comment works just as well, if not better!

kcflower Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 54	Fri 01/18/08 05:54 PM
I can if there's not much attraction- . Crazy maybe... but I'm at least trying to deal w/ it.

PhillyJim Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 279	Fri 01/18/08 05:54 PM
Sure is nice to know there are some woman who are afraid to talk to guys. Theres alot of guys out there that are shy to talk to woman. But I thought flirting was in all womans blood and knew how to flirt. Just smile and say hi If you want to know what to say and you want to get better at it make a list of things to say when your about to approach someone you like before you meet them.

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Fri 01/18/08 05:54 PM
just walk up and hump his leg...trust me...gets the attention every time! blow a kiss twirl your hair wear a low cut blouse bounce that booty from side to side thats my girl!!!

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Fri 01/18/08 05:55 PM
Now see I am really shy myself, BUT I can atleast say HI. There was a woman on here the other night that said she flirted with her eyes. Did you do that atleast? If you can do that you can say hi. I mean how hard is it to say HI?? If he isn't interested he just says HI and walks on. Its not that much a big deal, just try it. I agree with Unsure, How hard can it be to just say...hello. If he is interested you would think he would say hello....back. After that....tell him how nice he looks...or something basic like that, most men I know...like to talk about themselves... Good luck...either way!!!!

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Fri 01/18/08 05:55 PM
Here is my problem. I know I've always been fairly attractive, but I clam up really bad around men. Especially if I would have any interest. I do not know how to 1. Let them know I'm interested 2. Let them know I'm approachable. I hope this doesn't come off as stupid... but I could really use some advice on how to let a man know I'm interested. Tonight at Starbucks- I noticed a man. He walked past. I stared (his back was to me). He came by me and looked me in the eye and smiled. I smiled back. Then he walked to the cream/ sugar area... and loitered a little but we had no real interaction. I walked away when I could have gone closer. Why (besides I'm a big scardy cat). I'm going to need to meet someone somewhere & it's just not happening. How do I get past this hurdle? Or are men really always supposed to pursue & maybe they just aren't interested enough. I'm stumped... and I'm not a kid... you would think I would have some answers...=) Thanks for your help. You probably know this already, but you hot. Most men probably think you have a guy already. It doesnt take much more than hello. The guy was intimedated. Manybe next time notice what he ordered, and make a comment about it.

nonchalantwendy Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 13574	Fri 01/18/08 05:56 PM
bump into him...."oops I'm sorry sweetie" "Are you alright" Exactly! Creating the incident for comment works just as well, if not better! Works for me...lol...

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 01/18/08 05:56 PM
Here is my problem. I know I've always been fairly attractive, but I clam up really bad around men. Especially if I would have any interest. I do not know how to 1. Let them know I'm interested 2. Let them know I'm approachable. I hope this doesn't come off as stupid... but I could really use some advice on how to let a man know I'm interested. Tonight at Starbucks- I noticed a man. He walked past. I stared (his back was to me). He came by me and looked me in the eye and smiled. I smiled back. Then he walked to the cream/ sugar area... and loitered a little but we had no real interaction. I walked away when I could have gone closer. Why (besides I'm a big scardy cat). I'm going to need to meet someone somewhere & it's just not happening. How do I get past this hurdle? Or are men really always supposed to pursue & maybe they just aren't interested enough. I'm stumped... and I'm not a kid... you would think I would have some answers...=) Thanks for your help. Watch your body language, it may be telling people something you're not aware of. Relax, try not to worry about looking stupid, or what's going to happen. Keep a positive attitude. Hope this helps.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 01/18/08 05:57 PM
just walk up and hump his leg...trust me...gets the attention every time! blow a kiss twirl your hair wear a low cut blouse bounce that booty from side to side That would work

kcflower Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 54	Fri 01/18/08 05:57 PM
I know. And it is appreciated. You guys are giving really great advice. Thanks.

Lordling Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 536	Fri 01/18/08 06:00 PM
This worked well on me: Scene: Bookstore Woman: (pushing down the book that I'm glancing through) "You have a really big head." Me: (raising one eyebrow, with a crooked smile) "How kind of you to notice." Woman: "So, do you do anything besides read books?" Me: "Why, yes, I do a lot of things." Woman: "Want to do some of them with me?" Me: "I thought you'd never ask." We dated for 9 months...Didn't work out (circumstances beyond our control), but we had a great time.

kcflower Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 54	Fri 01/18/08 06:02 PM
This worked well on me: Scene: Bookstore Woman: (pushing down the book that I'm glancing through) "You have a really big head." Me: (raising one eyebrow, with a crooked smile) "How kind of you to notice." Woman: "So, do you do anything besides read books?" Me: "Why, yes, I do a lot of things." Woman: "Want to do some of them with me?" Me: "I thought you'd never ask." We dated for 9 months...Didn't work out (circumstances beyond our control), but we had a great time. lol. That's a cute story.