Topic: What's the best way to mend a broken heart?
caffeine_addicted's photo
Sat 01/19/08 02:55 PM
For me, I just try to hang out with my friends more. I don't talk about him, and I give him back everything he ever possibly gave me. Pictures go in a box in my closet. I used to sit at home a lot and be lonely then realized that wasn't helping so I got out more and made more friends.
When I felt that I could finally move on I actually joined this site.
Just know what he took for granted, he doesn't have you anymore.
Hun, you're a gem. Any guy would be lucky to be with you. Keep smiling and know that there is someone else out there.
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Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/19/08 03:16 PM

Bourbon the first week, after that it's all just being patient and letting yourself heal.


I like that BETTER than my superglue smokin

wv2646's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:23 PM
Been there and done that.

The best way I found to mend a broken heart, stay away from the other person, don't go to place where you two hung out, be with you other friends, cry alot get it out, the hurt is there let it out, but don't start another relationship, cause usually what happens is you are on a rebound, you know what the hurt feels right now, "right" and usually the other person will fall for you, then you will hurt that person so why put them through the pain, it just like my last relationship, I got hurt bad cause she cheated, that is the worst hurt, that why I will never cheat on anyone I know the hurt, so try your best to get over it the way you feel is best, but don't start another relationship till you are totally over it, it might take sometime but you will feel better when you are. But the best way is talk it over with friends, if they are a true friend they would want to go through this with you, it help to talk and cry. I glad I waited, now I don't have that bagage to take into the next one. No one want to hear about you exes, its a true off.

wv2646's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:29 PM
Oh I forgot one thing, if anyone start to tell you that your ex is with this one or they are doing this, before they start tell them you dont care the more you dont know what they are doing the more faster you will get over them, I didnt hang, or go around anyone that she knew or knew what she was doing, the old saying out of sight out of mind, it worked for me.

izzie's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:30 PM
try figuring out who you are... when you find you.. you will be hapier.... and when you are happy and confident.. then you show it..
then the new one will find you....



Monosyllabic♥Girl's photo
Sat 01/19/08 10:30 PM
I dunno. Ive had two open heart surgeries already in my life....and it STILL isn't fixed.brokenheart

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Sun 01/20/08 04:32 AM
give yourself time to heal and cry about it , mourn over it because it is a loss and move on.bigger and better things await u. he's loss and someone else's treasure.

sweetwinks's photo
Sun 01/20/08 06:28 AM
hmmm vanilla ice cream with baileys the first week and work out like a maniac for mnths after ..... HEY it's worth itdrinker

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Sun 01/20/08 06:29 AM
TIME...really thats the only way.

and keeping busy helps but time is the key.

adj4u's photo
Sun 01/20/08 06:38 AM
Topic: What's the best way to mend a broken heart?

the only way is to realize the only one suffering from your broken heart is you

and as long as you are still suffering from it

the person that gave it to you is still controlling you

hard lesson to learn and makes ya seem cold

but just the way it is

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boneyjoe's photo
Sun 01/20/08 06:46 AM
call me,,,,,,i'll come running

oldsage's photo
Sun 01/20/08 06:50 AM
Some broken hearts never mend. You just learn to go on with life & make the best of it.

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Sun 01/20/08 10:48 AM
eat lots of cantalope

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Sun 01/20/08 11:32 AM
oh ya and wine.......lots of wine!!drinker bigsmile

joshyfox's photo
Sun 01/20/08 11:34 AM
Pick up a creepy habit like model trains... that should do it! laugh

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Sun 01/20/08 11:35 AM
sleep with his brother!!!noway laugh laugh

jtitol's photo
Sun 01/20/08 11:36 AM
laugh

Some say...meet someone else, but is that really a good answer?
lots and lots of crack!!!!

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sun 01/20/08 11:56 AM
Duct tape..if ya can't duct it,fu ck it!!

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sun 01/20/08 11:56 AM

sleep with his brother!!!noway laugh laugh

did that one...laugh

caamken's photo
Sun 01/20/08 11:57 AM
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