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Topic: No kids?
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:26 PM




I dont understand why anyone would have kids. They are nothing but a burden.

my kids aren't burdens at all..
glasses They cost time and money.glasses That sounds like a burden to me.glasses


A burden is something that is UNWANTED. Those who have kids wanted them, therefore they are not a burden to them.
glasses I believe most people do not want their children but they dont dare admit it in public.glasses Ive seen it with my own eyes.glasses Thats why I have reservations about dating young mothers.glasses

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:27 PM


Lets hope you never need any help from someone one day, because you might be a burden. With all that money you have and because you're so selfish and aren't sharing with the kids you don't have, who's gonna get it when you die, someone that you don't know for sure. That sounds real nice!!!
glasses I have a family.glasses The one I was born with.glasses I love them with all my heart as they love me.glasses I didnt mean to make out like I had a "LOT of money". glasses Im just saying that whats mine is mine.glasses And I take a lot of comfort knowing that when I make a mistake in life, I am the ONLY one who suffers. glasses

Ising's photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:28 PM
Sorry, just defending the little ones, they are soooo precious and innocent and deserve the best!! I am glad that you know that you don't want kids, because we don't need anymore unloved kids out there.... I honestly respect your choice... I just always come to their defense when I feel they are being offended.... :smile:

Suzanne20's photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:32 PM
You are entitled to your opinion but I think that saying that children are a burden is taking it a bit far

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:34 PM

Sorry, just defending the little ones, they are soooo precious and innocent and deserve the best!! I am glad that you know that you don't want kids, because we don't need anymore unloved kids out there.... I honestly respect your choice... I just always come to their defense when I feel they are being offended.... :smile:
glasses I think you may have the wrong idea about me.I love children.Thats why I believe there should be less of them.This would make resources more available and the quality of life for everyone,children and adult would be a lot better.I dont understand what is wrong with that or why that is so offensive.I believe in personal responsibilty.Thats what Im endorsing.I believe that a person should be responsible for their children.Most people arnt very responsible and so the problem gets worse and worse.glasses

no photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:35 PM
If you don't want kids, definately don't. I remember when we had my son, we were quite young and I wasn't thrilled. Now that my son is 19 and I am older, I WISH I could do it all over again. Not that I didn't do a great job making him happy, I just didn't watch him grow like I would now. Like many older people say, I wish I was 20 years younger and knew then what I know now. Good luck. But don't have kids if you don't want to.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:36 PM

Sorry, just defending the little ones, they are soooo precious and innocent and deserve the best!! I am glad that you know that you don't want kids, because we don't need anymore unloved kids out there.... I honestly respect your choice... I just always come to their defense when I feel they are being offended.... :smile:
flowerforyou If less people had kids then there would be less unloved children in the world.flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:37 PM


Sorry, just defending the little ones, they are soooo precious and innocent and deserve the best!! I am glad that you know that you don't want kids, because we don't need anymore unloved kids out there.... I honestly respect your choice... I just always come to their defense when I feel they are being offended.... :smile:
glasses I think you may have the wrong idea about me.I love children.Thats why I believe there should be less of them.This would make resources more available and the quality of life for everyone,children and adult would be a lot better.I dont understand what is wrong with that or why that is so offensive.I believe in personal responsibilty.Thats what Im endorsing.I believe that a person should be responsible for their children.Most people arnt very responsible and so the problem gets worse and worse.glasses
And we pay for it, out of our paychecks everyweek!!

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:39 PM

You are entitled to your opinion but I think that saying that children are a burden is taking it a bit far
glasses I dont understand why that is so offensive to people !! glasses Its the truth as I see it.glasses I'm just saying that I dont understand why anybody would want to have kids.I also think it would be a good idea if people had less children. Whats wrong with that?glasses

Ising's photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:40 PM
OK!! maybe you misunderstood me.. I totally understand you not wanting to have kids. That is great and I do respect that. I still don't understand the statement about kids being a burden and trouble and all the other horrible things you called them. They aren't!! That is the part I don't agree with.. I agree, those families that have 11 kids or even that one that has 16 and I thnk she's pregnant again, should stop. Now that's not good, the kids end up raising the other kids anyway.. But, kids are wonderful and definately not a burden. They keep us all young and give back so much...... I adore my two lil angels even when they aren't acting like angels....

Suzanne20's photo
Thu 01/17/08 03:43 PM
Nothing wrong with not wanting kids. Thats your choice and I can respect that. But those of us that want kids will love them. I know there are some families that don't love kids, but to say that they are a burden for EVERYBODY is offensive. I don't even know for sure if I can have kids, but I hope so. I also plan on doing my part for the children who don't have homes by adopting a few.

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