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Topic: Why this why that
TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 01/16/08 12:53 PM
I see this a lot and the funny thing is, after who ever is posting a question they seem to answer there own question. But here is the kicker. WHY lol don't they fallow it through? It's easy to give advice but to fallow it is a whole new story.

Amalie Joined Tue 09/18/07 Posts: 1239	Wed 01/16/08 12:54 PM
easier said than done!!! thats all I can figure!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Wed 01/16/08 12:55 PM
How do you know they aren't following it through?

Shaden Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 6118	Wed 01/16/08 12:56 PM Edited by Shaden on Wed 01/16/08 12:56 PM
Maybe it's a decision based a different postings. Life is funny in in more ironic ways than not. :)

Hawaiigurl Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 3265	Wed 01/16/08 12:58 PM
I see this a lot and the funny thing is, after who ever is posting a question they seem to answer there own question. But here is the kicker. WHY lol don't they fallow it through? It's easy to give advice but to fallow it is a whole new story. Weird things are in the air!!

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 01/16/08 12:59 PM
How do you know they aren't following it through? Well when you see topics of a person going through the same thing months after months. I think that give an idea that they are not learning from there mistakes. If you don't at least try to understand it then how can you learn from it and move on?

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 01/16/08 12:59 PM
reassurance

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 01/16/08 01:00 PM
I see this a lot and the funny thing is, after who ever is posting a question they seem to answer there own question. But here is the kicker. WHY lol don't they fallow it through? It's easy to give advice but to fallow it is a whole new story. Weird things are in the air!! that could be it

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 01/16/08 01:00 PM
I think it's because it's so much easier to have someone else tell you what to do than take the responsibility for yourself.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Wed 01/16/08 01:01 PM
How do you know they aren't following it through? Well when you see topics of a person going through the same thing months after months. I think that give an idea that they are not learning from there mistakes. If you don't at least try to understand it then how can you learn from it and move on? oh, ok I see. Maybe they are hoping they will get a different answer next time.

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 01/16/08 01:02 PM
How do you know they aren't following it through? Well when you see topics of a person going through the same thing months after months. I think that give an idea that they are not learning from there mistakes. If you don't at least try to understand it then how can you learn from it and move on? Drama's addicting, it gives you an adreniline rush. And people figure if things are going quietly, calmly and peacefully, there must be something wrong. So, they create the drama for themselves, somehow. Either that or they're attention whores

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Wed 01/16/08 01:03 PM
Shadow, your hitting it on the head. Lots of people out there don't seem to want do the work to improve their life. Change takes work & discomfort. If you don't go thru it; you will never change.

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Wed 01/16/08 01:05 PM
why oh why oh why..didnt i get those shoes i looked at the other week ...lol ...im in a cheeky mood tonite shadow sorry hun lol

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 01/16/08 01:07 PM
why oh why oh why..didnt i get those shoes i looked at the other week ...lol ...im in a cheeky mood tonite shadow sorry hun lol cheeky mood? lol groovy

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Wed 01/16/08 01:08 PM
I have seen people do this in "real life" as well..keep asking people for advice until they get the answer they want. It's like they are looking for permission or something. Personally, I usually do what I want and rarely ask for advice.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 01/16/08 01:08 PM
How do you know they aren't following it through? Well when you see topics of a person going through the same thing months after months. I think that give an idea that they are not learning from there mistakes. If you don't at least try to understand it then how can you learn from it and move on? Drama's addicting, it gives you an adreniline rush. And people figure if things are going quietly, calmly and peacefully, there must be something wrong. So, they create the drama for themselves, somehow. Either that or they're attention whores attention whores

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 01/16/08 01:11 PM
How do you know they aren't following it through? Well when you see topics of a person going through the same thing months after months. I think that give an idea that they are not learning from there mistakes. If you don't at least try to understand it then how can you learn from it and move on? oh, ok I see. Maybe they are hoping they will get a different answer next time. The interesting thing is as you put it, looking for a different answer. that could be good and the other way it could be bad because most are looking for there own answers and somtimes that don't work. I think it's more along the lines, i olnly want to here what i'm saying

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 01/16/08 01:11 PM
Shadow, your hitting it on the head. Lots of people out there don't seem to want do the work to improve their life. Change takes work & discomfort. If you don't go thru it; you will never change. I chose to change today and you guys do help that along the way. Thanks oldsage

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Wed 01/16/08 01:11 PM
How do you know they aren't following it through? Well when you see topics of a person going through the same thing months after months. I think that give an idea that they are not learning from there mistakes. If you don't at least try to understand it then how can you learn from it and move on? oh, ok I see. Maybe they are hoping they will get a different answer next time. The interesting thing is as you put it, looking for a different answer. that could be good and the other way it could be bad because most are looking for there own answers and somtimes that don't work. I think it's more along the lines, i olnly want to here what i'm saying exactly!

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 01/16/08 01:12 PM
why oh why oh why..didnt i get those shoes i looked at the other week ...lol ...im in a cheeky mood tonite shadow sorry hun lol better watch it Debbie. might get yourself into some trouble