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Topic: Im honestly hurt.
kaylas1515 Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 1066	Tue 01/15/08 04:31 AM
dont give up.....we all have flaws....im a little chubby...but i make it work for me...and i have confidence.....all you have to do is have confidence....guys think it is sexy....and guys you better back me on that...cuz you know you do.....dotn give up....there are a lot of amazing people on this site.....i love my JSH family kisses to you all....and keep your head up girly....you will find someone i gurantee it...

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Tue 01/15/08 04:36 AM
I didnt know that i could hurt so badly. My feeling, my heart everything. I recieved this message from someone just a few moments ago amd I really dont know how to take it. I refuse to just blow it off, and I think I'm done now with trying to not be alone. No one likes the way I am, and I accept that now. Here is what the message said: "your not my type. and I know why nobady wants you. damn near every guy out there likes long hair, to be honest if you lost the glasses and dropped about 50 pounds you would be smoking hot and be able to get any guy of your choice." Well, I'm done I give up. well who ever wrote this hun ...isnt worth the space or time ...you ingore because its a load of rubbish

kaylas1515 Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 1066	Tue 01/15/08 04:37 AM
awww debbie its rubbish

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Tue 01/15/08 04:37 AM
awww debbie its rubbish lol its my favourite word...theres been alot of rubbish on today lol

kaylas1515 Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 1066	Tue 01/15/08 04:38 AM
ive noticed

jackcarver Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 41	Tue 01/15/08 04:58 AM
As the saying goes " if you have nothing good to say then dont say it". I think you can get this guy banned under the rules of the site. Something about positivity. Report him. Feck him!!

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 01/15/08 05:08 AM Edited by Fade2Black on Tue 01/15/08 05:10 AM
Thank you all. I wont say his name. God will take care of his heart. All I can say is i pity him. SOmeone with that much hurt needs help. But hinestly I'm not cut out for the dating world and I think im done with it. Look at my profile sweetie .. headline on it must have this guy's name on it. If he's too weak to follow HIS dream, he'll do all he can to discourage you from yours. We could all throw in the towel sometimes, but it doesnt' do any good & will never accomplish love now will it? You are a great person I am sure. I started a thread about just this type of thing .. that your profile should be rated on YOU not just looks (altho you are very pretty! ) Take a look and take heart: http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/67914 Don't let some negative guy change your future for you. That should only be in your hands to do hon

tomie Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 162	Tue 01/15/08 05:50 AM
Hi doesn't play well, I wish you didn't have to go through that kind of hurt. These sites are tops for rejection, we've all been rejected by some form or another. Know this about people, hurting people hurt people. I'm sure he has been hurt before & now subconsciously hurt others. I would suggest you grieve the issue then let it go and by no means, leave this site or any others. Keep a loving heart & grow some tuff skin. Good luck & GOD bless. T mie

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Tue 01/15/08 05:53 AM Edited by wiley on Tue 01/15/08 05:54 AM
That's crap. If they aren't interested in you, they shouldn't be wasting your time. That just goes to show how immature and/or dumb they are. You're better off. Anybody who focuses on looks is probably just a kid anyway.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 01/15/08 05:57 AM
That's crap. If they aren't interested in you, they shouldn't be wasting your time. That just goes to show how immature and/or dumb they are. You're better off. Anybody who focuses on looks is probably just a kid anyway. that's EXACTLY what my campaign on 'the WHOLE package" is all about darlin Nice point.

doesnt_play_well Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 456	Tue 01/15/08 06:24 AM
You know I still say that it mattered to me at the time, but the more I look at it the more I see that I have friends on here and for now if someone wants to put me down, all I have to do is talk to one of you. God will take care of the rest.

jackcarver Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 41	Tue 01/15/08 06:38 AM
You know I still say that it mattered to me at the time, but the more I look at it the more I see that I have friends on here and for now if someone wants to put me down, all I have to do is talk to one of you. God will take care of the rest. It was not you that was at fault, it was he. He was and is still an azz!!

mike Joined Thu 07/13/06 Posts: 1391	Tue 01/15/08 06:45 AM
Folks - Posting emails from other members on the message boards (which is what happened in the first post in this topic) is against the forum rules. The general content of this topic is fine, but as you can imagine, when members post emails from other members on the message boards, it can often lead to all kinds of drama. This is why the rule is in place, and why I'm locking this topic. I'll be deleting it in a minute, but just wanted to explain why first. Discussing these types of issues is fine, but to be permitted on the forums, you'd need to omit the email that was sent, and instead pose the question in a manner where not even the actual sender of the email would recognize that it was he/she you were discussing. Thanks for your cooperation.

mike Joined Thu 07/13/06 Posts: 1391	Tue 01/15/08 08:51 AM
P.S. I do sympathize with the original poster. The email you received is totally uncalled for, rude, and inappropriate. We don't allow users to send malicious emails like that on JustSayHi, so if you do receive one, please use the "Report Abuse" button on the sender's profile and we'll investigate and take the appropriate action.