My fiancee and I have been engaged for 5 months now yet we don't have a life.Everything we do is like a routine.We barely go out and our weekends involve us watching tv and joking around.We stay in a city(Clarksville,TN)where u need money to enjoy yourself and us being young and everything,we're out of that category.Does anyone have any suggestions???

sounds like you need to talk to him tell him your needs you know ya can do it there ky girl

Try to make things more interesting and then if things still aren't interesting , you then need to retake a look at what you really have or do not have , then go from there , it could be you are not meant for each other , but don't give up for my sake , really think about what you are doing , don't just jump into anything ,, Randy

best things in life are free , enjoy a nature walk

Buy a Nintendo Wii.....j/k. Tennessee is full of cool places. Can you drive to nearby towns or cities and find something to do at those places? Or just go for a romantic drive and maybe you'll pick something up along the way. What about a mall or music/movie store. There's plenty of things to do and if you have to go out of town to have fun....so be it....I live in a small city so I drive over an hour out of town to go to the mall. It sucks but, when you go with friends....it's quite fun... Try some of those things....

I dont know what the weather is like there right now but what about going to free concerts in a park? hiking, fishing, window shopping, how about volunteering at an old folks home or shelter?

IM W/DCRDNK - THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS THAT CAN BE DONE W/O SPENDING A DIME. NATURE WALKS, VOLUNTEER AT A LOCAL HOSPITAL OR FOOD KITCHEN, HABITAT FOR HUMANITIES...

AND THINK ABOUT THE PEOPLE YOU'D BE HELPING

yea but it's kinda nippy for that and the only place that's considered a "romantic walking place" is by the Cumberland River

yea but i dont think he's into things like that but i can always approach him wit the suggestion!!! :-)thanx

so, bundle up

beside think of how nice it's goin' to be when you get back home & snuggle w/him & a hot coco

Sweetie there are lots of things you can do

But talking to him is the most important thing of all..
Try taking a walk down by the lake , or go site seeing in the woods..
Read a cosmo book together to learn a few things ya didn't know before.. never know ya could learn something new.
Or maybe take a drive and surprise him with something sexy along the way.. Ya just have to use your imagination some.. look for friends in the area that want to hang out together.
Play a card game of strip poker, i am sure u have a great imagination , don't be afraid to try something new, try wrapping your self in cellaphane when he comes home. or make dinner in panties only.... lots of things to try.... you can do it no doubt ..... Good luck hun

I'm with dc on that one.....

My ex and I used to be like that and we got tired of each other. I think it's completely healthy to hang out and everything, but not all the time. I live in tourist town where everything is expensive too but you just have to give and take a little to do the things that may be expensive. I would atleast try to go out with him one night a week and go out seperately with the girls one night a week, you don't have to have a lot of money.

yea...im likin that idea!!!

yea i understand but i dont want him to feel like im avoiding him.we've been thru sum rough tymez in tha past and i dont want him to think that sumthing like that would happen again

those sound like sum REAL good ideas!!!hope u don't mind me stealin a couple, sweetie

play tourist in your own town... if you hit certain places on the right days they are often lower priced if not entirely free...
try a site like this one to get you started
http://www.wegoplaces.com/TNClarksville_Region_535.aspx

for a beauty queen like your self

anytime dear

and if ya ever want more ideas just find me

i am always around someplace



hugs to ya and the best of luck

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