Topic: My aunt is ready...but nervous
cindy_tragic's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:11 PM
I have an aunt who would love to meet someone. Her husband of her entire life passed away about 2 years ago, but she is finally ready to start meeting people and slowly finding someone for the rest of her life. She is heavy and very self conscience but she is very intelligent and one of my favorite people in my life. Caring, giving, God fearing, and I truly believe beautiful inside and out. I told her about the site..but because of her weight she's so nervous. Im posting this blog to see what kind of feedback I can get and maybe convince her to get over the nerves and put herself out there. She's lonely and wants love just like the rest of us. Any suggestions, thoughts or comments?!

CONAN731's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:14 PM
Nobody is perfect..You'll never know till you try...

stevex86's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:14 PM
I think she needs to just get out here. The hardest part is getting back in the saddle, but its oh so much better than living life on the fence.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:15 PM
flowerforyou I :heart: U flowerforyou

BIGZ83's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:17 PM
She should give it a try. I'm sure she will like meeting new people again.:wink:

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:18 PM
Come on in here! drinker We don't bite!
Well most of us don't... :wink:

flowerforyou

mnhiker's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:19 PM
Heavy is different for different people.

If heavy means she can't fit into her
wedding dress anymore, that's not
necessarily the definition of heavy.

I have dated women who were heavy
and have had some really satisfying
relationships.


readypanub's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:19 PM
Edited by readypanub on Thu 01/10/08 07:20 PM
I'm thinking mirror might bite...

Differentkindofwench's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:22 PM
Being the hostess with the mostest is not a requirement. If nothing else, she'll have a great email system with you.

cindy_tragic's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:32 PM
ahhh thanks everyone for the replies happy
ps..im still slightly new here..be my friend too lol

Differentkindofwench's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:38 PM
Damn those manners, where did I put them this time --------


Ah, there they are: Welcome to JSH, Cindy. Enjoy and have a large time!

stevex86's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:04 PM
Hi Cindy, I have only been at this a week or so myself, but what fun. Better than TV for sure.

Totage's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:08 PM

I have an aunt who would love to meet someone. Her husband of her entire life passed away about 2 years ago, but she is finally ready to start meeting people and slowly finding someone for the rest of her life. She is heavy and very self conscience but she is very intelligent and one of my favorite people in my life. Caring, giving, God fearing, and I truly believe beautiful inside and out. I told her about the site..but because of her weight she's so nervous. Im posting this blog to see what kind of feedback I can get and maybe convince her to get over the nerves and put herself out there. She's lonely and wants love just like the rest of us. Any suggestions, thoughts or comments?!


This is a great site with alot of friendly people. I think if she joins and posts to the forums, she could find someone, and have some lot of fun.

mnhiker's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:17 PM
If she's anywhere
half as pretty as
you cindy, I think
she'll do fine.

flowerforyou

cindy_tragic's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:38 PM
Oh this is so much better than TV lol
and thanks..
heh but of course shes got a few years on me! :tongue:

scttrbrain's photo
Thu 01/10/08 08:42 PM
Pretty is as pretty does.

I don't care if she is heavy or not. We can be friends can't we?

That is what this place really is anyway.

Kat

cindy_tragic's photo
Thu 01/10/08 09:02 PM
aww this is what I love to hear..
I just want her to know that its not all about physical appearance more so building relationships love so thanks for that lovely response