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Topic: guys...the one thing i really dont understand.
Idndiwm136's photo
Sat 01/12/08 09:01 PM

Never wait for anything. I can assure you there is a thousand men exactly like him out there that are not in a "funk". Move on.


I dunno about all that....I wonder sometimes ohwell ohwell ohwell

chris76RI's photo
Sat 01/12/08 09:15 PM


Never wait for anything. I can assure you there is a thousand men exactly like him out there that are not in a "funk". Move on.


I dunno about all that....I wonder sometimes ohwell ohwell ohwell



HEY !!! grumble now I'm in a funk...

Idndiwm136's photo
Sun 01/13/08 02:28 PM



Never wait for anything. I can assure you there is a thousand men exactly like him out there that are not in a "funk". Move on.


I dunno about all that....I wonder sometimes ohwell ohwell ohwell



HEY !!! grumble now I'm in a funk...



That doesn't include you!!! lol :smile: :smile: :smile:

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Sun 01/13/08 03:07 PM
Have you been to bed with him? If he wanted you he would of already done it. I would talk to him about your question, then the truth might come out. Don't hurry or crowd him, just let him know your interested and want to know what is really on his mind.

femalearian's photo
Sun 01/13/08 03:52 PM

ok so i need help...there is this guy and we have been dating casually for about 2 months now. he says that he really isnt ready to be in anything serious with me. and yea i do know what that means. but he did say at one point not too long ago that he is in a funk and when he gets out of it he will be ready. the thing is though he doesnt know how long that funk will be. im estimating spring. but anyways. i think i am starting to fall for him and im trying my best not to. so here is my question...how does one stop falling for someone? or what i would rather know how do i get him to start falling for me and want to be with me seriously. i know there can be more to us just by the way he kisses me and how he looks at me. so if anyone has advice id love to hear it! thanks!


Trust me huny, you need to dump him... quickly for your own good. Let me tell you the bitter truth: That guy will never be ready to be in a serious relationship WITH YOU. For some reason (u shouldn't care about), he does not see you as "Girlfriend" material for him, coz if he did, no amount of skunk will keep him away from you. I just got out of the same mess myself, and it took me 9months to realize that he'll never be ready. Don't read meaning into his kisses and how he looks at you. They are all a plot to keep you coming back. FORGET him huny, you deserve better!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sun 01/13/08 04:04 PM
You know it really bugs the crap out of me that the first thing people say in these situations is dump the bastard and move on. Nobody ever thinks that there are deeper concerns. You all can say that cuz youre not connected to the situation. But the best thing to do is follow your heart. Yes, you have a great risk of getting hurt. But nothing worth it is ever easy or without risk. If more people would get this then the damn divorce rate would be alot lower and there would be alot more happier people! You all need to grow up and realize life is not simple and actually WORK for the things you want.!!!

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Sun 01/13/08 04:14 PM

You know it really bugs the crap out of me that the first thing people say in these situations is dump the bastard and move on. Nobody ever thinks that there are deeper concerns. You all can say that cuz youre not connected to the situation. But the best thing to do is follow your heart. Yes, you have a great risk of getting hurt. But nothing worth it is ever easy or without risk. If more people would get this then the damn divorce rate would be alot lower and there would be alot more happier people! You all need to grow up and realize life is not simple and actually WORK for the things you want.!!!


If there are deeper concerns, then they should be discussed.
It's true that you have to work for the things you want, but you also have to be smart enough to know if they're worth working for. If you've been with someone for two months, and they're not taking you any more seriously than they did the first night, huny, ITS NOT WORTH IT!

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