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This is my opinion on this...... People judge what they want on different parts of the person. For those that physical stimulation and they want the rock hard perfect body that is their person thing. It doen't make it right or wrong. Some choose others for the conversation and the intellectual stimulation. While others choose for the emotional conection. It just makes me laugh because the ones that base their whole selection process on physical are usually the ones wondering why they got cheated on or that they just can't seem to make the relationship work. This goes for women and men. I think there has to be an equal part from all three of these things for me. I am not a tiny barbie type either. Before a near fatal car accident, two kids, and cancer it was. I guess the person that loves and and wants to be with me will love me for all of my faults the same as I will love them for theirs...Plus, I can always lose a few extra pounds, but personality and a great heart I already have. Judge me by those first. 
I agree full heartedly with this statement. |
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<--------bbw that has a preference too!!! Wants a man that does dishes in the nude!
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hi
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This is my opinion on this...... People judge what they want on different parts of the person. For those that physical stimulation and they want the rock hard perfect body that is their person thing. It doen't make it right or wrong. Some choose others for the conversation and the intellectual stimulation. While others choose for the emotional conection. It just makes me laugh because the ones that base their whole selection process on physical are usually the ones wondering why they got cheated on or that they just can't seem to make the relationship work. This goes for women and men. I think there has to be an equal part from all three of these things for me. I am not a tiny barbie type either. Before a near fatal car accident, two kids, and cancer it was. I guess the person that loves and and wants to be with me will love me for all of my faults the same as I will love them for theirs...Plus, I can always lose a few extra pounds, but personality and a great heart I already have. Judge me by those first.
awww you know i love ya xoxoxoxo |
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Hugs to ya all
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Well and what a person's preference is makes a good read on the person, to me anyway. I have been with men who say they prefer skinnier women but they "settled" for me and made me miserable trying to conform me to what they think they want or what society says is right. I will never choose a man who has a "preference" for thinner girls. If he is shallow at that level I will not prefer him
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Mmm yum!
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My guy is big, but that's not one of the things I like about him... I love his mind and how sweet he is to me. Call me sensitive, but I don't really like words like chubby, and think anyone who chases someone based on their appearance is looking at things the wrong way.
I would not mind at all if my bf did dishes in the nude!!! 
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My guy is neither big nor small. Just the way I like it.
What's so wrong with chasin' a bit of meat to keep ya warm?! |
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Amazing how the FAT threads last about 50 pages......
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damn i wish you was in england 
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I'm still not gettin chased
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I just think that if that's the only thing you're attracted to about the person, it may not work out for you (but some people don't want a long term thing).
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I love carebears!!!
 I would chase you, but I have a boyfriend. Good luck, though :)
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i know people have preferences and not all are attracted to celluite and frankly I am not at all attracted to muscleheads so its all good.
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thanks Star
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You are very welcome!
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thanks Star
Im chasing ya right now!
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Good Afternoon Ladies
Hope you all are doing great today.
Here is my story: In 1974, I weighed almost 500 lbs. I wore size 60 pants and size 23&1/2 shirts (5xxl) I had an intestional bypass operation in Oct. 1974 They don`t do this surgery anymore, because they consider it toooooo risky. It`s now 2008, I weigh 210 lbs. I now wear size 40 pants, and 2xl shirts. The reason that I posted this, is because I know how you Ladies feel at times. I still get these same feelings at times myself. I know how people look at you and judge you. I have been there on their judgement seat too. so I know what you are going through. Because of their so called judgement of someone that has some extra weight, is so damn wrong. They are missing out on some of the greatest people they could ever meet. That is their loss for being so damn shallow. As I stated on either page 4 or 5, I like curvy chubby Ladies.I also thank you for taking the time to read this posting. I also want you ladies to know, you all have a special place in my heart. Thanks once again ladies ...Ed
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Ed... you just won my friendship. Way to be so open-minded
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