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Topic: rose on first date or not?
Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 01/05/08 06:03 PM
Roses are nice......I think Ive been spoiled and received too many.......I like original presents......or even an original flower??? Please send me a plastic chocolate easter bunny head...

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Sat 01/05/08 06:06 PM


LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sat 01/05/08 06:14 PM
Seems like a nice gesture to me.

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sat 01/05/08 06:38 PM
if u give a gift to a person you have not already made a significant connection with (like a first date person, for example), you will make them feel a lot better about THEMSELVES (which is why all the women are saying yes yes do it do it) but it will actually make her lose respect for you, whether she knows it or not. You will be demonstrating that you are "easy" and therefore less of a man, or however you wanna phrase it. You WILL come off as desperate - I don't care who says otherwise. It's like a woman who gives up sex too easily. It's a really exciting proposition at first so youre all like YES YES ITS GREAT IF A WOMAN GIVE UP SEX EARLIER... but after you get it early, you lose a little respect for her. It's the same thing the other way around, except replace sex with gifts and resources. When did you get a vagina?

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Sat 01/05/08 06:58 PM
Good one Tulsa

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 01/05/08 07:00 PM
I just posted this question on one of my old threads, but I think people are sick of reading that thread so I thought I'd post a new one. Should a guy give a single rose on a first date? one person told me I should another said not until the second date. What do other people think? NO! Make her "earn" the rose. I wouldn't give anything on the first date. If everything goes well, and there's a second date, maybe give a rose, but not until it's been "earned".

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Sat 01/05/08 07:01 PM
never

soonergal Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 381	Sat 01/05/08 07:03 PM
Not on the first date. Or at least not a rose.

eyernmann Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 103	Sat 01/05/08 07:04 PM
Remember that old saying...."Liquor is quicker." Take a 12 Pack.

FindMe1113 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 35104	Sat 01/05/08 07:25 PM
WOW....I'm impressed, someone wants to give "me" on the first date.... <-------Rose and Single

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 01/05/08 07:27 PM
WOW....I'm impressed, someone wants to give "me" on the first date.... <-------Rose and Single Would you mind if I put you in a vase full of water???

cpt_johhny Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 469	Sat 01/05/08 07:27 PM
Soooo then what? A simple handshake and a cordial greeting? Thats not romantic, its plutonic. Wheres the fun in that?

Bevy68 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1	Sat 01/05/08 07:28 PM
Most definately...girls love romance!

lookingatu1980 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 2	Sat 01/05/08 07:30 PM
well it depends on what you want out of that relationship. And since you may not know on the first date how you want the relationship to go. I think it is best to wait for a later date. On the first date take it easy and relax and try not to spend more then $40

handymanbill Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 232	Sat 01/05/08 07:31 PM
well lets see rose on frest date nope not to we have a real date

FindMe1113 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 35104	Sat 01/05/08 07:31 PM
WOW....I'm impressed, someone wants to give "me" on the first date.... <-------Rose and Single Would you mind if I put you in a vase full of water??? By all means

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 01/05/08 07:32 PM
WOW....I'm impressed, someone wants to give "me" on the first date.... <-------Rose and Single Would you mind if I put you in a vase full of water??? I hope youre wearing your bathing suit!!! By all means

gracekelley Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 255	Sat 01/05/08 07:47 PM
It would be good on the first date but make sure they like them. Like Me I dont like roses

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 01/05/08 07:59 PM
<-----gives gracekelly a case of kraft Mac n Cheese!!!

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Sat 01/05/08 08:07 PM
why not...once i met a man who knew i liked yellow roses and he brought 3 doz to the door with him to pick me up...i was floored, they were beautiful!