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Sweetnspicy, guys who offer that type of honesty are still wearing there prepubescent boy suits and won't fully realize their indiscretion until they become men....,real men,....emotionally, physically and mentally. Some of the male members here are still boys very wet behind the ears. I appologize on behalf of them.
Don't get too down. We have all been in the same boat at least once, (probably much more than that), in our lives thus far. Just remember to maintain your standards and don't settle for anything less so you won't be lonely anymore. Accept only what is acceptable to you. |
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Well her ie my Friday night drunken thought. Dont hate me fo r it.
Get rid of the first pic, it sucks the other two are much better. Post a pic with a smile. Other than that, Your the bomb, dont let some asshole get you down! Remember, dont hate me beause I am being honest. You can hate me becaue I am drunk off my ass if you like, but then what the hell, it Friday night! 
Steve |
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Steve.........you drink??
 
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Hey sweetnspicy there's nothing wrong with you. You're kind, gentle, warm and responsible. You say in your profile you do not want to be judged but yet you want to ask why or why not someone would date you. That's not fair to yourself or us. Honesty? For me? Age, distance, and choice of movies would prevent me from a date. Hope that helps. Good luck.
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lol what the heck you mean about choice of movies???
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she asked for the truth, and bobzeaux gave his honest view.
those who seek ignorance should not question. and he was not rude, he was honest. i can imagine a thousand other ways he could have been a thousand times more rude than what he posted. dont try to read between the lines of what i have said to slap the "rude" label on me, too. just take my message for what it directly says, and you will understand what i really mean... which is simply directly what i have said. theres a great thing about attraction... anyone can have it and anyone can incite it within another person, regardless of what your god handed you at birth. where there's a will, there's a way. |
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she asked for the truth, and bobzeaux gave his honest view. those who seek ignorance should not question. and he was not rude, he was honest. i can imagine a thousand other ways he could have been a thousand times more rude than what he posted. dont try to read between the lines of what i have said to slap the "rude" label on me, too. just take my message for what it directly says, and you will understand what i really mean... which is simply directly what i have said. theres a great thing about attraction... anyone can have it and anyone can incite it within another person, regardless of what your god handed you at birth. where there's a will, there's a way. I agree, I don't think bobzeaux was rude at all. She asked if people would date her and if not, then why. Bobzeaux gave her an honest answer. If all she wanted was sympathy posts, she should've called the thread "Nobody will date me. Make me feel better". People always talk about wanting honesty, but then can't handle the truth when they hear it. |
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she asked for the truth, and bobzeaux gave his honest view. those who seek ignorance should not question. and he was not rude, he was honest. i can imagine a thousand other ways he could have been a thousand times more rude than what he posted. dont try to read between the lines of what i have said to slap the "rude" label on me, too. just take my message for what it directly says, and you will understand what i really mean... which is simply directly what i have said. theres a great thing about attraction... anyone can have it and anyone can incite it within another person, regardless of what your god handed you at birth. where there's a will, there's a way. I agree, I don't think bobzeaux was rude at all. She asked if people would date her and if not, then why. Bobzeaux gave her an honest answer. If all she wanted was sympathy posts, she should've called the thread "Nobody will date me. Make me feel better". People always talk about wanting honesty, but then can't handle the truth when they hear it. Yeah, you have a point, but sometimes brutal honesty is not positive and why rain on somebody's parade? Obviously, this lady was having some frustration and somebody fresh out his knickers says he won't date his mother...big deal. He got out his "honesty" but what for? Sorry, but consideration can be more important. I am not saying lie...I am just saying shut up if you don't have something positive to say. Sweetnspicy, I think people gravitate toward confidence. I really believe that attractive is as attractive does. I have known some absolutely physically gorgeous specimens, but once they opened their mouth they became very unattractive. And, vice versa. I have known some very "plain" people physically who carried themselves with such confidence and had such a great outlook on life that they were unbelievably attractive. Be positive and you won't have any problems. |
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I do thank all for their open and honest answers, question asked and answered.
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she asked for the truth, and bobzeaux gave his honest view. those who seek ignorance should not question. and he was not rude, he was honest. i can imagine a thousand other ways he could have been a thousand times more rude than what he posted. dont try to read between the lines of what i have said to slap the "rude" label on me, too. just take my message for what it directly says, and you will understand what i really mean... which is simply directly what i have said. theres a great thing about attraction... anyone can have it and anyone can incite it within another person, regardless of what your god handed you at birth. where there's a will, there's a way. I agree, I don't think bobzeaux was rude at all. She asked if people would date her and if not, then why. Bobzeaux gave her an honest answer. If all she wanted was sympathy posts, she should've called the thread "Nobody will date me. Make me feel better". People always talk about wanting honesty, but then can't handle the truth when they hear it. Yeah, you have a point, but sometimes brutal honesty is not positive and why rain on somebody's parade? Obviously, this lady was having some frustration and somebody fresh out his knickers says he won't date his mother...big deal. He got out his "honesty" but what for? Sorry, but consideration can be more important. I am not saying lie...I am just saying shut up if you don't have something positive to say. Sweetnspicy, I think people gravitate toward confidence. I really believe that attractive is as attractive does. I have known some absolutely physically gorgeous specimens, but once they opened their mouth they became very unattractive. And, vice versa. I have known some very "plain" people physically who carried themselves with such confidence and had such a great outlook on life that they were unbelievably attractive. Be positive and you won't have any problems. Well, I gotta say you're lookin' pretty good.... 
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Maybe if I was a guy or into girls
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I wouldn't date you because you've got 25 years on me, and I don't find you attractive. Of course inner beauty is what's supposed to be greatly appreciated, but there HAS to be some sort of physical attraction if you're looking for a relationship. Sorry for sounding like an asshole, but you asked and I gave an honest answer. Can't believe someone was honest for once. |
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Been turned down and burned out. Help anyone? I cant help you either I don't date women but hang in there there is someone for every person Welcome to the threads 
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we don't always have to say everything that pops into our little heads, now, do we? Oh, oh, I see. We're supposed to offer opinions that AREN'T based on what we actually think and feel. My apologies. I forgot. My words may be unkind, but they're real. The op asked if I would date her, why or why not, and I SAID so. She's trying to gain some understanding here, not the frustrating and unconstructive "get back up on that horse" advice. Don't lynch me for being honest. Well even if you were close to her age...she probably wouldnt date you....you need a haircut....clean up boy....real women like men who clean them selves up and look like the respect themselves... |
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Its hard to say whether I would date you or like you. Or for that matter why I wouldnt.....your pic is OK your profile is good. Remember guys on here are visual creatures...throw some new pics up, mix things up a dab...see what happens
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Edited by
Deana64
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Sun 01/06/08 09:44 AM
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in truth not everyone sees the same thing in everyone that they view
something may pop out to one person that somebody else may have missed entirely thats the beauty of choice, and differences in people but there are people of all ages and all types, with totally different tastes about most everything on here at JSH just bring out the positives in your self and don't destroy what somebody else may see in you. good luck lady you will find someone |
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I see in your profile that you, "get annoyed by men who only look at the outside appearance and don't take the time to know the beauty within." So, it would seem that you are probably annoyed at this point? Everything else in your profile seems positive except for that statement. I would remove it. It may be helping to set you up for disappointment. Just an observation.
Just because someone is not attracted to you because they don't like the way you look, doesn't mean you are unattractive, does it? I like the attributes you described in your profile and I would only date someone like you. The fact that you like Harley's kinda turns me on too ;0). JK, I own a Honda. |
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I would date you but dont expect a kiss...
 Cuz I an't that kind of girl...  
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thank you for being honest, that is what I wanted and needed.
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