I am going no where on this dating app I getting nothing but scammers and people who want just sex and keep getting matches that are older then 30 years old and farer then 100 miles I tried everything and the fact I can’t get premium because I don’t have a job makes this so much harder there got to be some way to get a good match

Unfortunately, this site has become overrun with scammers. Purchasing Premium does not solve your problem. I don't understand the direction of the site, but hope that it will change in the future.

Reject any who ask you to move to WazzApp, Telegrift, or googlychat right off the bat.

Insist on a real voice phone call.

If they can't talk to you how are you supposed to have a relationship?
Sit on the couch or in a restaurant & text each other?

So far, out of about 200, I've had 3 call me - THREE! - and all three had foreign accents & such poor English you could cut them with a dull butter knife.
At least they sounded female.
You have no idea if some "Nigerian Prince" immigrant dude in an Albanian slavery call-center is really behind a text message or not.

Try 'Realms' on here, see menu at the top. Good Luck.