In the 1980's My First Wife and I were in Our Early Twenties, Living in California.
We were Wild Young and Free !!
We did Things that would Make Hugh Hefner Blush.

Were did All Those Yesterdays Go.

Spent a night in Bangkok that would make a hard man crumble.

Two nights in Vegas, one with Elvis.

But it stays in Vegas ;-)

OHH YES !! I was in Bangkok in 1970
on the Famous Street > SUKHUMVIT 22
Known as Boogie Street.

I was there in 73 but don't remember much of where exactly. Also had some good times in Korat and Takli.

I'm an Elvis Impersonator. Thank Ya. Thank Ya Very Much.
I'm Also a Doctor and Lawyer Imperonator.

My Fondest Memories of My Past Intimate Encounters :

#1- Being Hired as a Personal Trainer for Employees at "THE LOADMASTER CORPORATION".
( They are a Large Chain of Fertility Clinics ).

#2- Hiking with a Group of Nuns at the Height of the Rut Season of Elk in Allegheny National Forest.

#3- My High School Coed Wrestling Team's Bus Trip to "INTERCOURSE PENNSYLVANIA".

Any Dom can demand obedience, but true surrender is something you EARN.
When you rush the dynamic (skip the conversations, the aftercare, the trust-building) what you're really doing is chasing control, not building connection.

Earning surrender takes presence.
It takes listening, patience, and the willingness to be seen without the performance of power.
Because when your submissive chooses to kneel, it's not about authority, it's about trust.
And that kind of surrender is nothing less than sacred

Excellent Comments MsLauren !! I Wish You Lived Closer to Me.