im always doing stupid thigs it seems
everyone here made me get my head out of my $^*$
and get my act together.you have to understand
how stupid ive been.

Well golly ding dang boy.....spill it already

no job fo two months .not from lack of trying 42 apps out.only 2 nibbles.well before x mas I caught my girl,who i left my wife for,of 4 years cheating.
we talked and she wants me out .
no job no family and im not willing to leave my stuff here for vultures.Im staying upstairs,until ican get back on my feet.
save to rent a house and so on.before when i started this thread i was a real mess because of the freinds ive made here
ive done more inthree days tan the last two months.it might sound pathetic but you all have helped me.

know i have a job start next tuesday im going back to work from the job my girl told me to quit.she works there and so does he noody noes anything until i walk in the door on tuesday.
It should be fun wathing her squirm.

I would really like to get out of here but all in good time .beleive me if i had the spread ide be gone.

Please note: The thread was pulled because of UA violations.

Tough love is one thing, but several people crossed the line into abusive in said thread.

Name-calling and accusations are not permitted. Feel free to discuss this topic, but let's keep from breaking JSH rules.

To inapickel: I hope you find what you are needing, and that you receive the help you are requesting.

Be well,

Lori
Moderator

thanx

ok this is is the deal......sit down......This is life my friend...and you either deal or you get a one way ticket to the looney farm.. I don't see anything wrong with staying their until you get on your feet if she is willing to let you do that....Now if this was her home first....then she has a say......If this was your place and hers together tell her to get the hell out.

It also sounds like your in a better frame of mind about things....which is such a plus....Don't let her dictate how your life is going to play out....use what has happen, learn from it.....and go on.

house is in daddys name shes willing to help me only because
she,ll catch crap at work if i open my mouth so im using it to my advanage. the when i started this thread 3days ago iwas totally lost know i have guidance .pathetic.

your on the right track......so just keep looking ahead my friend.

i bet this one will get deleted as well, i miss the original post.

im more clm now i have derection
i still cant spell.

Too bad you didn't find that direction before you left your wife for this homewrecker, huh?

I was wondering if anyone was going to mention that Lily....seems a little karmic law happening.

oh beleive me i did after the first few months. but we press on
I apoligized to my ex about3 months later.
i guess i did deserve this
seen her at his house didnt bother me huh

really into getting out on my own and making it happen
i just dont know what to do at work
torment
silent treatment(makes our freinds really wonder)
?????????

I see, I didn't realise he was being abused.