Topic: CONFIRM PLATFORM LEGITIMACY
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Thu 05/15/25 09:52 AM
Been active here for about a month. I've had many conversations, but so far, not 1 interaction with a legitimate person. Had multiple sex workers who lured me off here to WhatsApp or Telegram, only to tell me they're the P2P type, multiple bots, multiple scammers, and even somebody who listed their age as 27 on her bio, lured me out of here to Snapchat, then said.. "let's catch up when I finish school" 🤮
The rest of the female profiles are attention whores simply on here to boost their IG followers. It's an absolute joke!
MY REAL QUESTION: Is this platform even real? Has ANYONE ever made a legitimate connection with anyone on her.. ever?

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Thu 05/15/25 02:02 PM
I have met legitimate people from this site, but not many. I have shared messages with a few that seemed legitimate, but we didn't click. But yes, most of the contacts seem fake, and you're easily spotting fakes.

I never take it off the site, and once they insist on taking it to IG, Signal, WhatsApp, or wherever, and that usually happens quickly--it's over for me.

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Fri 05/16/25 01:11 AM
I have met legitimate people from this site, but not many. I have shared messages with a few that seemed legitimate, but we didn't click. But yes, most of the contacts seem fake, and you're easily spotting fakes.

I never take it off the site, and once they insist on taking it to IG, Signal, WhatsApp, or wherever, and that usually happens quickly--it's over for me.

Yep.. sounds like a good rule of thumb Mortman. I'm super new to this online world, so I could use all the advice I can get haha.
Happy to hear you actually met a human being on here though, hat's off to you my man

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Fri 05/16/25 06:36 PM
Back in the day, 2008-2010. I meet 3 women IRL that were on this site. A couple more spoke with on the ph.
One of them became my wife. There were lots of real people here back then.

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Sun 05/18/25 11:28 PM
Back in the day, 2008-2010. I meet 3 women IRL that were on this site. A couple more spoke with on the ph.
One of them became my wife. There were lots of real people here back then.

thanks for weighing in Michiganman. seems like the introduction/rise in popularity of things like SM has skewed that a little, shame. I gotta ask though.. you said you found your wife here.. Sooo what are still doing floating around? haha.. unless of course, you guys both play

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Sun 06/01/25 05:01 AM
She died in 2024.
I came back to see if anyone that we knew were still around. I was able to retrieve some poetry we had written to each other.
The forums back then were quite active with real and interesting people. There were LD couples that were meeting in real life then reporting on how it went.
I won’t be renewing a paid membership that’s for sure. Back then it was all free, well most of us were grandfathered in on all the features without the paid memberships.