My advice would be don’t give up and don’t compromise your virtues and values. Set goals for yourself and achieve them. Have good friends around you and most importantly keep your family around you. Find joy in your faith and the world even when everything around you seems bad. If something depresses you step away from it and drown it out. Keep your heart and mind in check and don’t let them get off balanced. Find comfort in faith over emptiness. Always find love and hope in everyday things and let it take you from there .

Thank you for your beautiful advice, dear Julie 🥰️

Adorable words and thoughts from you, Julie 🥰
I have saved them in my diary ❤
Faith in God is the only reason that can help us move forward amidst all the emptiness in doing God's will

Really , I got Goosebumps the way she answered my question with so much of Confidence . I would like to add a little more here .
YOU ( means all the Young Women's) , You must believe in yourself first , that everyone is Unique and beautiful . . So , Stop comparing yourself to others and focus on important things Globally . YOU , YOU, YOU are the leader of your life and the voice of your own , So, Plzzzzzzzz come out and Speak UP..
Thank YOU !

Thank you all and add Laska Paul’s words too. Another thing to add is you have every right to say NO if something doesn’t feel right to you and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Find true positive role models to look up to and they can be anyone from friends to family to famous people. Find inspiration everywhere and if someone’s words inspire you write it down in a diary or notebook and note who said it so if you need inspiration you’ll have it on hand and bring it everywhere with you. Remember there’s only one you in this world and there’ll never be another like you so always love that about you.

Yes Julie, Rightly said ❤

Oh and another piece of advice it’s totally cool to be a virgin like me .

Through people like you, it makes all of us accept that everything can be made possible in life n we can still move on with courage

Stay blessed and cool, as always Julie 🥰

Thank you AatHeera ! Another piece of advice to is life is unscripted and can be unpredictable so act on your feelings. Don’t believe everything you see on TV or in movies where everything is scripted and predictable. Tune out anything that is negative or a bad influence and tune into anything positive that keeps you upbeat and uplifted .

Lotsa good advice, Julie. But some shltty advice was slipped in. I like and respect you, that's why it pains me to have to point this out - but I think it's important to point this out...

- While I agree it's "cool" for a woman to be a virgin I don't necessarily think they should try to stay virgins. They should be finding a husband and partner to do life with, make babies and stay immortal. I think that's really important to stress, which brings me to my second point

- I don't think you should compromise virtues or values either... but I think they should be realistic. You were saying something about Mr. Perfect, when Mr. Perfect doesn't exist. Hell, Mr.Perfect for her, doesn't exist. Nobody is perfect, and if one thinks that they have no faults of their own, or that a relationship doesn't have it's trials - they are delusional

- Last one! I don't think there should be a carte blanche on "act on feelings" There should be a lot of logic used when making decisions. Feelings change by the hour or even hormone level with women. Logic never changes.

Even though you made some okay points on the part of the being a virgin even though it’s old fashioned so is the woman finding a husband part too. For me I live off the true love waits philosophy and will only give up my virginity to my husband . I’m not saying that all young women should do so it’s up to them to give their virginity to whoever they want but at the same time no one should put them down if they are one. True they’re is no such person a perfect one and we all take the best and worst of us in a relationship and work through them in time until we can hopefully overcome them and find real maturity in them.

I also would like to say that rushing women into marriage and having kids is wrong cause no man would like a woman rushing him into such things. A real man should never rush a woman into anything, marriage especially cause this would only lead to divorce . It takes time to know each other. Also a real man should never rush a woman into sex either.