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Why is it so hard for me to find a man who is real and honest?! What is the problem inside you in being honest with yourself first before others?!
 
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Why is it so hard for me to find a man who is real and honest?! What is the problem inside you in being honest with yourself first before others?!
You! Not only you . There are thousands and thousands of people still waiting to find a good honest partner . But its hard to find a Good person in this generation . Have patience , may be one day someone will come to you directly and say "I Love YOU" and from then-on your Life will be completely changed . I hope this Happens soon . Good Luck .!!!! |
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I swear to you, I am very tired.. Moments ago, I was crying to my friend and telling him about the bad relationship I went through... Why do men so have problems with being honest with themselves and others and being a real man?!
I'm tired of being single. I'm a 35 year old woman... How long will I stay single and keep wishing to marry a loving, caring, honest, respectful, romantic, clingy, kind-hearted, family-oriented man?!!! 🥺  Why do I find it so hard to find a real and honest man?! What's wrong with you man to be honest with yourself and others? Ha!   I want a serious relationship that ends in marriage.. Where can I find this real man in this scary time?!   |
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I swear to you, I am very tired.. Moments ago, I was crying to my friend and telling him about the bad relationship I went through... Why do men so have problems with being honest with themselves and others and being a real man?! I'm tired of being single. I'm a 35 year old woman... How long will I stay single and keep wishing to marry a loving, caring, honest, respectful, romantic, clingy, kind-hearted, family-oriented man?!!! 🥺
Why do I find it so hard to find a real and honest man?! What's wrong with you man to be honest with yourself and others? Ha!
I want a serious relationship that ends in marriage.. Where can I find this real man in this scary time?!
Well, you are complaining like a baby here. I sent you a nice direct message but you didn't think it is necessary to reply. Even I am not the one you are looking for, you could at least be so kind and reply, saying thank you for your efforts but you are not my type, age or whatever. Work on yourself before you keep complaining about others. Just wanted to get that off my chest! |
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I'm sorry.. I didn't respond to you.. but you have to know that you are not suitable for me... in terms of age, and on the one hand, you are an atheist.. and on the other hand, you asked me if I could take off my hijab if I traveled to Canada... definitely not.. I will not give up my religion and my hijab for any man in the world, no matter who he is .. I repeat my apologies to you if I wronged you.. But you should have known that I wasn't right for you from the start.
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To me both sexes have honesty issues. Like Laska Paul sad you have to be patient and rushing to find “Mr Perfect” isn’t a good thing. Hey I’m 52 and still single and cool with it but if the right man comes along great but I’m certainly not in a rush for him to come along. Patients is truly a top virtue and should be practiced every day. Be content in the everyday little things for now.
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I swear to you, I am very tired.. Moments ago, I was crying to my friend and telling him about the bad relationship I went through... Why do men so have problems with being honest with themselves and others and being a real man?!
I'm tired of being single. I'm a 35 year old woman... How long will I stay single and keep wishing to marry a loving, caring, honest, respectful, romantic, clingy, kind-hearted, family-oriented man?!!! 🥺
Why do I find it so hard to find a real and honest man?! What's wrong with you man to be honest with yourself and others? Ha!
I want a serious relationship that ends in marriage.. Where can I find this real man in this scary time?! How many local men proposed to you in the past? Do you find anything wrong in yourself/your family, that keeps potential men away from getting engaged to you? |
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How many local men proposed to you in the past? Do you find anything wrong in yourself/your family, that keeps potential men away from getting engaged to you? I have a bad previous experience with local men, and in general, Arab men are bad with me in relationships... because I was exposed to psychological harm, bullying, and disappointment from them, and that is because of their superficial, closed mind... They only care about a woman’s outward appearance and forget the important things in a woman: her mind, her personality, her thinking, her morals. ................” When an Eastern man chooses a woman who is ideal in her beauty and marries her after the first month or two, he divorces her... Why?! ...Because he discovers that this woman is not suitable for him and is not fit to be a wife and mother to his children after he satisfied his sexual need with her... **** them....they are stupid and think like bastard teenagers.... 
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How many local men proposed to you in the past? Do you find anything wrong in yourself/your family, that keeps potential men away from getting engaged to you?
I have a bad previous experience with local men, and in general, Arab men are bad with me in relationships... because I was exposed to psychological harm, bullying, and disappointment from them, and that is because of their superficial, closed mind... They only care about a woman’s outward appearance and forget the important things in a woman: her mind, her personality, her thinking, her morals. ................” When an Eastern man chooses a woman who is ideal in her beauty and marries her after the first month or two, he divorces her... Why?! ...Because he discovers that this woman is not suitable for him and is not fit to be a wife and mother to his children after he satisfied his sexual need with her... **** them....they are stupid and think like bastard teenagers....
I agree with you that men ,not all of them, only look on the outside of women and find us physically attractive when they forget we have a heart, mind and soul just like them. When I see a well body man yes I get attracted to him but I also want to know his heart, mind and soul to be even more attracted to him cause physical beauty can fade and so can the physical attraction but as long as the other three don’t fade I still find him attractive. I use to be like you in the crying part wondering if I’ll ever find my soulmate and was jealous of my married family and friends but it made me feel worse and so I stopped being that way and found joy and hope in everyday things and I’ve been continent ever since. Yes that special place in my heart feels empty but my faith overshadows it and it gives me comfort over emptiness. |
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I swear to you, I am very tired.. Moments ago, I was crying to my friend and telling him about the bad relationship I went through... Why do men so have problems with being honest with themselves and others and being a real man?! I'm tired of being single. I'm a 35 year old woman... How long will I stay single and keep wishing to marry a loving, caring, honest, respectful, romantic, clingy, kind-hearted, family-oriented man?!!! 🥺
Why do I find it so hard to find a real and honest man?! What's wrong with you man to be honest with yourself and others? Ha!
I want a serious relationship that ends in marriage.. Where can I find this real man in this scary time?!
Yes, the crap that I see online..,the dating scene out there is scary and selfish and narcissistic.....I would suggest that you continue working on yourself to be the best person you can be for your potential husband, as a woman, wife and mother. Look at successful marriages, I did not say perfect, and learn from them and pray that your future husband is doing likewise. Engage in more social activities and hopefully your girlfriends will know of someone who have the qualities you are looking for in a future partner. Have patience. I know you have a dream you would like to have fulfilled but in some cases it is better to remain single then to rush headlong into marriage to be traumatic in the end. Hopefully that will not be the case with you. God bless. |
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I think this Topic is taking a New Turn . Everyone wants to help you that indeed is a Great thing you should keep in mind. What is your opinion about Matrimonial Ads ? I am sure that may help you Alot . But if you stick on to your demands , for sure that will not work . This is only my suggestion .
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I agree with you that men ,not all of them, only look on the outside of women and find us physically attractive when they forget we have a heart, mind and soul just like them. When I see a well body man yes I get attracted to him but I also want to know his heart, mind and soul to be even more attracted to him cause physical beauty can fade and so can the physical attraction but as long as the other three don’t fade I still find him attractive. I use to be like you in the crying part wondering if I’ll ever find my soulmate and was jealous of my married family and friends but it made me feel worse and so I stopped being that way and found joy and hope in everyday things and I’ve been continent ever since. Yes that special place in my heart feels empty but my faith overshadows it and it gives me comfort over emptiness. You have reached this point, my dear, after you felt the despair of those around you because you did not find the right man for you... Perhaps now you have found inner peace with yourself at this age... You do not want a man at the end of time to treat you badly and turn your heart gray, God forbid... Ask God to grant you what you wish for and to put your mind at ease.. Amen 🤲  🤍
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Yes, the crap that I see online..,the dating scene out there is scary and selfish and narcissistic.....I would suggest that you continue working on yourself to be the best person you can be for your potential husband, as a woman, wife and mother. Look at successful marriages, I did not say perfect, and learn from them and pray that your future husband is doing likewise. Engage in more social activities and hopefully your girlfriends will know of someone who have the qualities you are looking for in a future partner. Have patience. I know you have a dream you would like to have fulfilled but in some cases it is better to remain single then to rush headlong into marriage to be traumatic in the end. Hopefully that will not be the case with you. God bless. What you say is true, my dear.. I have patience and faith in God.. but sometimes despair overwhelms me due to the disappointments that I experience in my life.. I hope that this real man will come one day in my life...
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I think this Topic is taking a New Turn . Everyone wants to help you that indeed is a Great thing you should keep in mind. What is your opinion about Matrimonial Ads ? I am sure that may help you Alot . But if you stick on to your demands , for sure that will not work . This is only my suggestion . Thank you very much and thank you to others.. Thank you for being so kind to me... 🥹  🤍 ... Yeahh please.. but how and where?!🥹
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That's why you need to focus on activities that will take your mind off your current situation. Online or offline groups, communities that cater to your interests or hobbies or engage alone. Think of a married couple desperately trying to conceive but to no avail. Eventually despair and friction threatens the stability of the marriage. Only when they shift their focus and don't make pregnancy a top priority that overwhelmed every other area of their lives then in some cases the wife gets pregnant. The whole idea is to place your current situation aside, take your mind of it and enjoyed life. There are stuff that you wouldn't be able to do after marriage as opposed to being single. So take advantage of that. A depressed, tired woman is no help to a man. Strengthen yourself in the Lord and work on yourself. God Bless.
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That's why you need to focus on activities that will take your mind off your current situation. Online or offline groups, communities that cater to your interests or hobbies or engage alone. Think of a married couple desperately trying to conceive but to no avail. Eventually despair and friction threatens the stability of the marriage. Only when they shift their focus and don't make pregnancy a top priority that overwhelmed every other area of their lives then in some cases the wife gets pregnant. The whole idea is to place your current situation aside, take your mind of it and enjoyed life. There are stuff that you wouldn't be able to do after marriage as opposed to being single. So take advantage of that. A depressed, tired woman is no help to a man. Strengthen yourself in the Lord and work on yourself. God Bless. Thank you very much, my dear, for your valuable advice.. I will take this matter into consideration.. God bless you 🥹🥰🤍 |
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You are welcome.
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How many local men proposed to you in the past? Do you find anything wrong in yourself/your family, that keeps potential men away from getting engaged to you? I have a bad previous experience with local men, and in general, Arab men are bad with me in relationships... because I was exposed to psychological harm, bullying, and disappointment from them, and that is because of their superficial, closed mind... They only care about a woman’s outward appearance and forget the important things in a woman: her mind, her personality, her thinking, her morals. ................” When an Eastern man chooses a woman who is ideal in her beauty and marries her after the first month or two, he divorces her... Why?! ...Because he discovers that this woman is not suitable for him and is not fit to be a wife and mother to his children after he satisfied his sexual need with her... **** them....they are stupid and think like bastard teenagers.... Have you got any marriage proposal in the past, yes or no? |
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Even if I die single I’ll rest in peace knowing I’ve touched other peoples lives in big and small ways and that’s all that matters and after all God has told us helping others can bring joy and peace in your life and it’s helped me overcome my emptiness
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Julie ABush , Intelligent answer from you .
I have a Question for you ? What advice would you give to all the young women's here on how to deal with the pressures they are facing today ? |
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