I had a terrible marriage since 7 years ago when my ex-husband having an affair with an employee in our company while I had to return to Vietnam to mourn my mother. Is a man's desire so great that it has to be like that?

Unfortunately some men are that way but I also believe that there are still loyal men out there but they’re hard to find. Good luck .

I heard such story with little twist earlier too..
Few royal are seen here in Mingle2 too, they are always for tour with pure honest lady.. then get vanished..

Oh sorry to see your husband wasn't loyal to you,

It's a shame that some men are not loyal, it shines a bad a light on those of us who are loyal...

exactly

so woman don't cheat, you woman aren't perfect stop blaming men, get your head out of your ***, it's not all about you, it was eve who failed and wad tempted by the serpent not adam,when you point you have 3 pointing back

I agree, anyone who cheats on their partner lacks any loyalty towards them. The question is, why do people cheat, it's not just because they lack loyalty, people cheat for many reasons in my opinion. Lack of true affection from their partner when their love has gone , maybe their partner cheated on them first and they want to do the same to them, or they are mistreated and seek affection elsewhere, and it seems some are week and cannot be without someone to share a bed when their partner is away. I believe most people are loyal, but sadly not all people, a long courtship before marriage helps discover a person's true nature.

Yes theres loyal men. I was loyal in both my 22 year ltr, but thats not the only glue that holds a relation together, thats a basic cornerstone.

If loyalty is an issue, one of them should have seen the signs long ago. The TRUTH is the #1 key to success in a ltr. Because when one lies, immediately the other loses a degree of trust forever, and its VERY hard to get back.
After that its a bad seed that destroys the relationship from within after that.

Loyalty and Trust are usually foreseen before getting in any serious relationship, many fail to notice that what they are getting into is not Healthy. Then you are in a mess of a relationship.

IMO

Cheating breaks up many couples' marriages.
Finacial issues more than infidelity.

If you are not married or engaged, would not be cheating. You are just fornicators.
Some do not agree with that either.

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No, a man's desire is not so great that it has to lead to infidelity. While it's true that people have desires, these desires should not be used as an excuse to hurt others or break commitments.

Your ex-husband's infidelity was a choice he made, not a result of uncontrollable forces. It was a betrayal of trust and a sign of disrespect towards you.

It's important to remember that your worth is not defined by your ex-husband's actions. You deserve to be treated with love, respect, and loyalty.

well yes they are I'm one of them if a women can be loyal to me hell yeah I'm going to be loyal back

loyal men are still very much existing but it is hard to find one unless you are patience and willing understand

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