Evey guy i have ever dated just hurts me in every possible way. And sometimes i think it is me, but i do everything right. I have ahard time getting to know people or guys becuz i am afriad it is going to happen agian. DO you think i will find that guy that will not do that?

From past experience, I would have to say the answer is NO

I'm the same way as you but you just have to hang in there

Hun, the only way you will never get hurt again...



is to give up & not try any more.


Learn discernment..it will not lead you wrong.

Hard to say much without a lot more information, but I think there's an inherent problem with your statement "but I do everything right." NOBODY does everything right. I'm not saying it's your fault -- how would I have any way of knowing? -- I'm just saying it sounds like you're oversimplifying.

Just remember, there are a LOT of self-absorbed idiots in the world. We are all going to run into them.

Guess there are several people in the same situation - that includes me!!

I continue hoping that there is one person in this world that won't leave me burned again!!

And I'm pretty shure that there is one out there for you too

You might want to rethink the "but i do everything right" part. Believe me nobody does everything right. This is the wrong attitude to begin with.

I was always told that ladies have to kiss several or more frogs before they find their prince charming. I might just be cheezy or whatever but I believe in time, we (females) will be blessed with our one and true love. But for the mean time,

For what it's worth, guys go through it too. Keep trying and sooner or later it'll happen. We all believe that will too or we wouldn't be posting here. :-)

There are a lot of good guys out there...and yes some bad.

I don't know much about you...But do you think it could be down to the type of guy you go for ??

from what ive seen no and it just keeps getting worse

i dont hurt girls
nor do giurls really hurt me
but i know how you feel
your disapointed dat's all
not all of us guys are there to hurt you

Hang in there!! by the way nice ride 68 chev..

I see some girls scorned here Dam. Listen my opinion..theres stil decent guys out there. I like to consider myself one. Chivalry is not dead its just hard to find. Most guys are idiots or conceited. Hang in there nice people are abound you just have to be patient...I have found that the best things in life have come when I least expect them. Not when Im looking for them.

Yep! I agree... just keep kissin those frogs! Under one of those soggy exteriors HAS GOT TO BE a rock had handsome, caring, loving MAN!!! Give it time, and just keep puckering!

I know exactly what you mean by saying you do everything right. You may have just cared too much and were willing to do everything and anything to keep that guy in your life. You will find your Guy that won't hurt you, but you have to keep yourself open to it and not close yourself off.

Laurie

Good Luck Hon!

Life's package has accidents also. Serious people do not befall such a way to hurt people for no good reason. We need to give trust that will support our souls by giving this trust to others that we may learn to be and become and blossom onto neat become. Maybe you need to be with someone more on the real, because trouble making is not necessary, so no, you do not ask for negligence given to you but more that you need to act smarter in commitment that you be no one's fool. Take your time. Maybe you need to have different taste, that you maybe are attracted to trouble makers who care little about decent relationships, this hurts.

It was an offer.

The problem is, all the good guys out there are struggling to find the good girls, but we don't always go about itin a charming way when faced with a opportunity. That's why I find it easier to charm women online... because my words can flow more freely... the same words that play in my head... but don't always come out of my mouth when I have to be spontaneous in a face-to-face situation. So while a lot us that are like that are defeating ourselves in love, the good girls are flocking to the bad guys that will hurt them time and again.

Solution that helps all the "good" ones: Give the guys that may not always seem slick or attractive another shot. We can surprise you.

Just one other thing I would like to get in here ! as many guys get hurt as females But we don't tend to go on about it so much....Not the male thing to do