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Topic: Videochat so u dnt waste time
Mexicolove's photo
Sun 08/06/23 01:33 PM
Yeah I don't waste my time with the ones that don't want to video chat anymore

Mexicolove's photo
Sun 08/06/23 01:33 PM
Yeah I don't waste my time with the ones that don't want to video chat anymore

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Sun 08/06/23 01:49 PM
What she said ^^^^

Plus, too many men can't be bothered to spend time to get to know a woman. They want to know within 10 seconds whether you're what they want or not.
I do not play that game and ain't interested in such men.
I'm worthy & deserving and if a man doesn't see or feel that as he wants to go through as many as possible in as little time as humanly possible he's not for me. His loss, not mine.
I'm looking for a guy who's willing to invest in me and go the extra mile and is eager to get to know me. Not 100 other women. Me.

Totally agree.

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Sun 08/06/23 10:39 PM


For some I'm sure Video Chat works out great..

It does not immediately weed out those that are fake... I'm sure it gives one more of a idea who that person is or what they look like..

Myself I'm one that will not video chat.. And if that makes one think I'm fake then that is on them..

The site has free e-mails.. in order for members to get to know each other a bit better till they are able to meet..

Myself the reason I prefer not to do the Video chat is because I don't do LDR's only those that are local.. I prefer a face to face meet within a couple weeks..

yeah, but how often do those conversations continue for a couple weeks before you actually meet?


I'd say however long it takes to vet somebody....if that takes 2 weeks, so be it. Sometimes people can suppress the crazy longer than others

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