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is there a way to repress getting feelings too early for someone?
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nature will take its course........
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if it's happening frequently i would think there's a bigger problem there then just getting the feelings..
fear of abandonment or something like that maybe? |
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Try to think of them as ummmmmmm your sister?
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why do that? let your feelings go.
I mean maybe for a week or two. But you got to let those burgers out , to be able to move on and grow. |
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Recognize that your feelings early in a relationship are the giddiness of infatuation, not love. Enjoy them.
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No it isn't happening now it's happened in the past. I don't care about abandonment I don't know what it is.
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I have never claimed to love anyone i've never even had a real relationship just infatuation like you said smiles.
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somebody leaving you/giving up
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Hmm? Leaving me?? Who leaving me??
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you asked what abandonment? meant?lol
Maybe you didn't I am sorry |
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OH OK. Btw these aren't my opinions some girl told me after knowing her a month me liking her was too soon? I mean sometimes I start to get interest after just a few days but i'm not in love or ready for a relationship then. I don't see my problem but i've been told this a few times
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maybe she was afraid of abandonment
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just have in your mind that u need to move slow ,dont get your hopes up,friends 1st
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Seems odd to me. Why would people continue to date if they didn't like each other?
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O_o? what continue to date? I didn't date this person i'm talking about we were just friends for a little over a month and I asked her out.
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I have the same problem gansta... I fall REALLY easily... and it SCARES THE H*LL out of me!!! I got married before I knew him a year... got divorced after 14 years... dated a guy... fell in what I thought was "love" after only a month... and now "he needs time to sort things out"/ Although he told me that he loved me too.... so I know where you are coming from... if you find a "cure"... PLEASE LET ME KNOW!!!
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I probably won't i've never been in a real relationship all my "too soons" have come from before the relationship. The last girl i almost dated was the one "too soon" she told me she loved me like a month after we started to talk (from this site) needless to say i never met her or dated her.
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