Topic: Rate my profile Please.
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Wed 10/05/22 09:35 PM
Not sure what I'm doing on here, not sure I'm even doing the right thing. I've been off the market that long, this is all new to me.

Take a look please and let me know what you think :relaxed:

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Wed 10/05/22 11:59 PM
Okay :ok_hand:
Good Luck :thumbsup:

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Thu 10/06/22 01:07 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž on Thu 10/06/22 01:08 AM
Very negative and unappealing.
No idea what "A solid 3 in a world full of 10's" means.
Someone stating their children always come first isn't interesting either as that means the new potential partner always gets the short end of the stick which isn't fair nor right.
Having been there myself, single mother with my 2 kids after divorce, I can say it's way more nuanced than what you state. As such I will never get involved with anyone saying what you say.

Lastly, you're not even divorced yet. Maybe wait a while until you have healed and are officially single.

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Thu 10/06/22 08:45 AM
/\ What she said :clap:

moomin's photo
Thu 10/06/22 09:14 AM
Great pictures , though I would probably remove the ones with your daughter in .
Like Crystal said no idea what the bit about the solid 3 means .
And yes I would also remove the bit about your daughter always comes first and the baggage bit .
But Still keep the bit about daughter .
Good luck , :heart::slight_smile::heart:

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 10/06/22 09:18 AM
Humm I'm with SparklingCrystal on this one..

Negativity is the one that I will skip in a heartbeat.. It is a given that most should consider their kids over anyone..

Ohh got news for you Vape is the same thing as smoking. Honestly it is worse for you then cigs.

I'm one that those that Vape must not do it around me for it actually effects me worse then regular cig smoke does.. Has to do with the chemicals within the flavors makes my nasal system stop up and burn like crazy...

And yea being separated and not Divorced is a big red flag for me..

delightfulillusion's photo
Thu 10/06/22 09:25 AM
Your profile tells us nothing about you as a person. Expand on that more and write about the kind of person you hope to meet. Focus on what you do want and not what you don’t as negativity attracts negativity.

Remove the pics of your daughter. As much as she is a huge part of your life, you as the parent are deciding who you choose to date or interact with, not your child. If you’re so proud of her then protect her privacy and safety and keep her photos off FREE apps.



Larsi666 😽's photo
Thu 10/06/22 11:40 AM
I don't find your profile that negative. It is just honest. And me being a victim of domestic abuse myself, I know how hard it is to get used to positive vibes and then spread positive vibes.

And about separated vs divorced ... you guys in the UK, do you have the same laws, as we have in Ireland? Judicial separation as a final decision and a binding document with the same legal value a divorce has? And that an actual divorce is only needed if you want to get married again?

But please take the pics with your daughter off. Thias is just plain dangerous :pensive: