Why are men more aroused than women and why women can go months without having it but us men can go days without it?

I meant Men can't go days without ot.

without it

AC.. Not all men are same with dirty thinking 24x7.....Get in some workouts, reading etc etc..... Tricky

Being a man does NOT mean wanting to spork every woman you see.

I agree

Absolutely!!

Laughter is really good

It's hard to stay focus when you go out in public and women are half naked

Then get the glasses checked..
or you cover your eyes with clothes..
Tricky mind

If your mind is in the right place, women could go out in public completely naked and you wouldn't be focused on having sex.

I must be the exception then....I've survived decades without it.

There, fixed that for you.

Men can go without it just the same if they so choose.
Matter of mindset and priorities.
And for women it's more difficult to keep feelings and the act of sex separate. We get a huge dose of oxytocin dumped in our blood and brain which is the bonding hormone. So even if we don't want anything from a guy other than sex we can still end up having feelings for him.
Some women can keep this separate, but these are usually women more in their masculine energy --> higher levels of testosterone.

There are btw also men that don't like to engage in sex without anything else involved. This would most certainly go for the men that have their heart open.

Not going to elaborate further on all this. Told the story many times, even posted an article on the subject last week by a well-known dating coach.

Just know it's not like you say and think. Matter of choice and what's more important in life to you: mindless sex or a deep love connection.

Me too.

Try taking a Tumeric, it reduces inflammation, and libido

Hello laughter is good

arousal for men can be driven by a single stimulus .. usually visual . . For women arousal is more complex .

As for libido and desire for sex , it is unfair to generalise , as that is not necessarily gender specific and is influenced by lots of factors including age , hormonal function , health , lifestyle , personal beliefs about sex , the value attributed to sex and what societal/cultural/religious pressure someone is exposed to .
Libido is not a static state .

I am sure you have heard the old joke about men having two brains .. that is simply not true .. a penis is. Incapable of thought or rationalisation . Sure at times it may seem that male arousal is trigger happy but it is infact the mind , our largest sexual organ , which is responsible . Without the brain there would be no arousal . It is brain function that accounts for differences in libido . . Controlling hormonal feedback loops , pleasure centre activation , blood flow , energy levels , mood etc .

Like any pleasure , sex can be addictive . How you respond and cope is an individual response .

Hope that helps
Blondey x
Resident sex guru

You are wise in the ways of the force Blondeywan.

Great rebuttal!!!!!!! And are you referring to "Coach Corey Wayne"?

Great rebuttal and I meant to say most men think this way and there's a higher ratio to men than women.