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Topic: Am I the only one.....
TheLonelyWalker's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:14 PM

Ok..I really need to know this..Am I the only one that this happens to:A Guy comes along..does and ays everything he can to get your attention and your interest up..just to start acting like you don't exist?..WHY do they do THIS!?..ok..ok..I'm calm now..I'm sorry.laugh

it has happenned to me just with a girl

cocosharnel's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:15 PM
laugh laugh laugh has happened to me also.

nekozee's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:15 PM
It's as if people tend to always have a hidden agenda. They come along at just the right time, say all the right things, and just when they know that you are comfortable with them, they flip the script. The true them comes out. So, here's what I suggest ladies and guys as well....When you meet someone new, take tham to a club or just out for a few drinks. People tend to always tell the truth as well as let the real them shine through when they are slightly intoxicated. Red flags will than fly. And that's my story....I'm still stickin' to it!

AaronZ's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:17 PM
Edited by AaronZ on Sun 12/30/07 07:20 PM


Ok..I really need to know this..Am I the only one that this happens to:A Guy comes along..does and ays everything he can to get your attention and your interest up..just to start acting like you don't exist?..WHY do they do THIS!?..ok..ok..I'm calm now..I'm sorry.laugh


The question of the ages....it happens all the time to women by men and to men by women...don't worry, you're not alone and obviously he's not worth your time, worry or attention to behave that way towards you.


now be fair here

I have found a lot of times a guy just wants to be chased a little back , sometimes woman don’t get the fact that when a guy tries NOT too hard he is sometimes rejected, then when he goes balls to the wall, then that does not work either…

neednogames's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:18 PM
Edited by neednogames on Sun 12/30/07 07:18 PM
Its happened to me a few times on another site. They give me their messenger and when I go to chat with them, they seem to all the sudden draw a blank on how to hold a conversation.

Air heads..laugh

izzie's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:19 PM
hey catch..




AaronZ's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:20 PM
fyi

IntelligentLady

YOU are hot, and cool!!!

*act- monkey nods approval

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:21 PM
((((((((Izzie))))))))))))))How you doing girl..haven't seen you in like..FOREVER!

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:22 PM

May I add an observation please?

Hasn't this happened since you first went to school?

When a tiny child in the playground, the new friend, all wonderful and exciting, then boom!

Suddenly you are dust, and they have a new best friend?

It is not gender specific, nor dating specific, it is a facet of human nature.

Use the same techniques, (hopefully healthy ones) you used as a kid... it's no different.

All they did is showed you they were not who they said they were.

I love ur wisdom

izzie's photo
Sun 12/30/07 07:22 PM
((((((((((((magic))))))))))))
i kno.. had alot going on.. work and kids and stuff.. missed ya!!

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