Topic: Interracial relationships
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Thu 05/19/22 06:52 AM
Edited by Unknow on Thu 05/19/22 07:02 AM





Apart from anything, there is only a very vague link between race and culture.


Guess you have something there. I would contend that same race from different countries would be best to stay separate as well. I myself am Polish and neither me nor my siblings married a Pole. Result is I haven't had a good bowl of czernina since I was a kid. When I worked with some real Polish guys at a machine shop I really came to understand what our family lost. Those guys have a culture, we have only fading remanents.

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Thu 05/19/22 07:22 AM
hey,Am looking for a long term interracial relationship that may lead to marriage.Any white man out there who is real and genuine am here.I am very real just looking for a someone real no games.

The long term didn't even covered the 24 hours of trailer :speak_no_evil:

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Thu 05/19/22 08:58 AM
Agree. This is not the first nasty post I've seen from him.

I also agree here!

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Thu 05/19/22 09:03 AM
Why dilute your race unless you hate it ? If so hang yourself

This is the height of ignorance and an incredibly backward way thinking. To be multi-racial is not a dilution of any race.
A little research may help you with this, but based on your rigid perspective and rhetorical retort I'm thinking not.

Allow the OP to continue with her discussion, she was having fun in the thread and take your bad energy elsewhere, buddy...


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Thu 05/19/22 09:07 AM
^^^^^ :thumbsup: Well said Merry!

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Thu 05/19/22 10:46 AM

Riddle me this. How can you claim to like and / or respect them if your all good with them and their traditions and cultural being basically wiped out. This mixing thing is being pushed by those that mean harm, open your eyes. I for one am sick of it and unashamed to say so. Maybe the hanging part is a bit extreme and my anger was not pointed in the right direction. It should be more toward those pushing the agenda.


This racist replacement theory horse hockey is the same kind of thinking that caused the Buffalo shootings. It has no place in the America I live in and fought for.

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Thu 05/19/22 11:35 AM


Riddle me this. How can you claim to like and / or respect them if your all good with them and their traditions and cultural being basically wiped out. This mixing thing is being pushed by those that mean harm, open your eyes. I for one am sick of it and unashamed to say so. Maybe the hanging part is a bit extreme and my anger was not pointed in the right direction. It should be more toward those pushing the agenda.


This racist replacement theory horse hockey is the same kind of thinking that caused the Buffalo shootings. It has no place in the America I live in and fought for.


I consider myself being interested and quite active in politics. But I never heard about that "horse hockey" reference? Polo, as a sport for the upper class/British elite?

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Thu 05/19/22 11:56 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Thu 05/19/22 11:58 AM

Why dilute your race unless you hate it ? If so hang yourself

This is the height of ignorance and an incredibly backward way thinking. To be multi-racial is not a dilution of any race.
A little research may help you with this, but based on your rigid perspective and rhetorical retort I'm thinking not.

Allow the OP to continue with her discussion, she was having fun in the thread and take your bad energy elsewhere, buddy...

In a way I agree, but personally I feel the nuance is missing from this thread of which the OP btw has left the building already.

Thing is that many Africans are looking for a white spouse and this does raise eyebrows. It means they're only looking for a better life, money, and a free pass into a 1st world country.
The thing wrong with this - which no one has mentioned and is the nuance I spoke of- is there is NO mention of looking for love.

There is nothing wrong if two people from different races actually love each other. It's another matter when someone is merely looking for someone from another race & country for financial gain.

Then another nuance that most seem to forget... it's not just white people that may feel we should stick to our own, black people do too, and possible other races as well. If nothing else I think maybe black people are more reluctant and unwelcoming of a white partner in the family.

And not meant as a pun although it sounds like it, it's not black and white. It never is.

I do get that some feel that there has been way too much mingling of races as it is and this is not just that of each race but also their respective cultures.
Our culture DOES get diluted way too much and way too fast. Now admittedly that's not just due to interracial relationships but by allowing too many people -refugees- from different cultures in our countries.
Also, why shouldn't we have the right to feel that way? There's a certain Middle Eastern country that flatly refused to allow refugees in from a country with a culture like theirs. Not even though they had all the facilities available with beds, heating, airco etc. to harbour thousands. They refused. No one gives them chit for that.
Instead we are forced to open our doors yet again to let more people from a different race, religion, culture in.

Again, it isn't black & white. And I too frown when I see someone looking for a colour of skin and financial gain, not love.

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Thu 05/19/22 12:08 PM
In a way I agree, but personally I feel the nuance is missing from this thread of which the OP btw has left the building already.

Thing is that many Africans are looking for a white spouse and this does raise eyebrows. It means they're only looking for a better life, money, and a free pass into a 1st world country.
The thing wrong with this - which no one has mentioned and is the nuance I spoke of- is there is NO mention of looking for love.

There is nothing wrong if two people from different races actually love each other. It's another matter when someone is merely looking for someone from another race & country for financial gain.

Then another nuance that most seem to forget... it's not just white people that may feel we should stick to our own, black people do too, and possible other races as well. If nothing else I think maybe black people are more reluctant and unwelcoming of a white partner in the family.

And not meant as a pun although it sounds like it, it's not black and white. It never is.

I do get that some feel that there has been way too much mingling of races as it is and this is not just that of each race but also their respective cultures.
Our culture DOES get diluted way too much and way too fast. Now admittedly that's not just due to interracial relationships but by allowing too many people -refugees- from different cultures in our countries.
Also, why shouldn't we have the right to feel that way? There's a certain Middle Eastern country that flatly refused to allow refugees in from a country with a culture like theirs. Not even though they had all the facilities available with beds, heating, airco etc. to harbour thousands. They refused. No one gives them chit for that.
Instead we are forced to open our doors yet again to let more people from a different race, religion, culture in.

Again, it isn't black & white. And I too frown when I see someone looking for a colour of skin and financial gain, not love.

Hi Crystal,

I was responding specifically to Donnie's retort. There are aspects that you have stated that I understand your perspective and others factors that perhaps is simply your own personal opinion (which is gone and respect).

As a South African, who is both multi-racial and cultural, the continent is a melting pot of race and culture (due to colonization/ slavery from the East etc.)

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Thu 05/19/22 12:12 PM
Hi Crystal,

I was responding specifically to Donnie's retort. There are aspects that you have stated that I understand your perspective and others factors that perhaps is simply your own personal opinion (which is gone and respect).

As a South African, who is both multi-racial and cultural, the continent is a melting pot of race and culture (due to colonization/ slavery from the East etc.)

With that said, there is a constant perception and impression, which is warped and based on mere opinion as opposed to factual evidence and/ or history. A stigma that rests in discrimination and inaccurate information. Whilst we may have certain well-known people who in their own capacity try to unlearn parts of this the sweeping statements are more that opinion. Which, I understand "each to their own".

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Thu 05/19/22 09:31 PM
If some people don't start to realize that we are, a very large population made up of many varieties of the same beings, living on a very small ball of dirt in a very large universe which don't give a rats behind about what color you are or what Gods you believe in, we are all going to end up like the dinosaurs.

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Thu 05/19/22 09:55 PM

If some people don't start to realize that we are, a very large population made up of many varieties of the same beings, living on a very small ball of dirt in a very large universe which don't give a rats behind about what color you are or what Gods you believe in, we are all going to end up like the dinosaurs.

Quite so. Primarily, the race we belong to is Homo Sapiens. From one extreme of Homo Sapiens to another is incredibly small when given the right perspective.

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Thu 05/19/22 11:12 PM

Why dilute your race unless you hate it ? If so hang yourself
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Whiteness does not make you superior and it certainly does not make you intelligent , more entitled or worthy . You sound like you are channeling Hitler !!!! You post is offensive and I believe the hate was intentional . Shame on you .

Curious ., were you born in Poland ?

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Fri 05/20/22 09:03 AM
I have the feeling that the person who initiated this thread, is having a field day.

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Fri 05/20/22 10:58 AM


Why dilute your race unless you hate it ? If so hang yourself
pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork

Whiteness does not make you superior and it certainly does not make you intelligent , more entitled or worthy . You sound like you are channeling Hitler !!!! You post is offensive and I believe the hate was intentional . Shame on you .

Curious ., were you born in Poland ?



Nope, not born in Poland just Polish on both sides. Never did say anything about any kind of supremacy. Matter of fact if there were a superior bunch I wouldn't think it would be the Poles after all were Slavic if you know what that means. I do wish we kept more of our traditions and that may be un American to say or want. Maybe my bunch should have stayed in Poland but that's water under the bridge. I could go on about it but if I am develish as you depict I would say the most maybe sinful thing about me is short and sharp criticism. And most everyone here is better at expressing their selves than I. But definitely not for wiping out or breeding out any races, traditions, nationalities and any other way I can put it . And though I put it overly harsh I think my original post reflects that. It basically screams , do not smash a race, a culture ! I claim to be a Christian but I struggle with it in my word and deed at times. I don't post alot but when I do I can be crude and I know that. I also drink too much and post and this is sin. Im not saying I've changed my stance though. If you want to hang me because I'm that wrong and that bad then hang me. Or pray for me. Or both.

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Fri 05/20/22 11:16 AM
Whats the use of debate where the show master posted a topic to burn flames vanished away...

Have Peace and Good Time.
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Report if found anything wrong :white_check_mark:

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Fri 05/20/22 08:56 PM
Am interested!

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Fri 05/20/22 09:36 PM

Am interested!


In what? She's gone mate.

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Fri 05/20/22 11:07 PM
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Fri 05/20/22 11:08 PM
Not necessarily, she or he could be lurking in another profile!