Why is very difficult to find the one? Is that I'm not good enough for somebody 🥺

it's cause timelines is crossed
your one was me
like 100 years ago
or some shite like that
you're jus gonna need to time travel

Maybe yes. But I have no time for that. I need to work. So much responsibility wait for me 🥲

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There are more than 7.5 billion people on earth, if you're looking for "the one" out of 7.5 billion, play the lottery instead, you have better odds

I don't know what to say. But thank you Guys 🤝

You're what? Twenty-five? Why be in such a hurry? Why be so down on yourself?

In Java especially Kampong, that age is already old. and will having pressure because family or relatives will asking about marriage. So different with city life

And I'm 27 btw

Well your profile says twenty-five. May want to correct that.

Your life is yours, not your family's.

Lot of people end up in unhappy relationships because they felt pressured to marry.

I do understand, I've been doing a lot of research on the Philippines and Indonesia. (I plan to visit the area in Dec. I do understand at 30 your considered an old maid. just stay on here, Western world doesn't really think that way. We consider you coming into your best years!

I do understand, I've been doing a lot of research on the Philippines and Indonesia. (I plan to visit the area in Dec. I do understand at 30 your considered an old maid. just stay on here, Western world doesn't really think that way. We consider you coming into your best years!

I know. Sometimes I also try to be enjoy and chill up. But I can't lie too if now i'm in under pressure 🥲

Yes. Indonesia especially Kampong is different.

I know. western people are open minded about that. That's why I can openly share story here

All families are the same, wanting you to find somebody and settle down that is not so unusual. However, you are saying you are looking for 'the one' for you, and that takes time and patience. Go where you will meet others, for example, learn a new dance at dance classes, join a club where you have an interest, go out to evening classes and learn something new maybe another language, you will surely meet lots of new people and with similar interests as your own.

You may even find someone of interest here in the forums in Mingle2, good luck in your search.

Focus on life, other than the negatively building in you towards your ownself.. Few answer remains on time.. Give your time towards things that keep you busy an happy

Nope your more than good enough, your just like me, your fussy.

I have had 11 mere males claiming to be females all ready, never a hungrey sauage eating aligator around when you need one.

First think of what you want, then the kink of wapper you want him / her or it covered in.

Rewrite your profile to attract that kind of person, join as many sites as you can find for free,but keep in mind you the hunter, even if you dont want your victims to reales that.

Finding the right person may not be quick, so have a hobbie or activites that can eat some time up, and give you some thing to look forward to.

Last is keep a lot of super glue handy, you dont want your perfect what ever getting away do you ?

My very best to you and yours leona

She is already sad an you are making her more afraid... Nurra don't take it seriously...

Take 30 minutes and list all the happy thoughts you can think of. Just use a piece of paper and make a long list. Give yourself a good 30 minutes. List the people and places that make you happy: good friends, favorite vacation spots, childhood memories and more. List things that make you happy: puppies, babies, the smell of a new car, a lobster dinner, a day of relaxing by a pool. List anything and everything you can think of that makes you happy.

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