Topic: Cannot date?
Flybat's photo
Wed 12/15/21 01:38 AM
Why cannot I date a woman, even an older one? Although I'm man, I understood that most of online ads with female suggestions are scam and didn't waste money. But when someone talk about "sexual freedom widespread" I'm skeptic. I don't think that it's because I'm overweight: I have no fat on limbs or back; and also fatty women rejected me.

no photo
Wed 12/15/21 03:15 AM
Why cannot I date a woman, even an older one? Although I'm man, I understood that most of online ads with female suggestions are scam and didn't waste money. But when someone talk about "sexual freedom widespread" I'm skeptic. I don't think that it's because I'm overweight: I have no fat on limbs or back; and also fatty women rejected me.

Am sure you can date,but it all depends on your approach towards the women you like...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/15/21 04:28 AM
your profile is not very appealing.
Not a good photo, face the camera and smile!

The text is just a rant to let off steam. No one is interested in that, certainly not any woman.
Deal with your own problems in life, and on a dating site tell what you have to offer and what you're hoping to find.

I also don't really get why your on this site? You might be better of on a dating site of your own country and language to find someone.

Ava Adore's photo
Wed 12/15/21 04:38 AM
Nobody is going to be attracted when you're being so negative

Merry's photo
Wed 12/15/21 04:52 AM
Nobody is going to be attracted when you're being so negative

Precisely! I don't think anyone wants to be with someone that reflects such negative thoughts. Your poor impression of the superficial aspects are a huge turnoff by referring to women in such a way.

Flybat's photo
Wed 12/15/21 05:12 AM

your profile is not very appealing.
Not a good photo, face the camera and smile!

The text is just a rant to let off steam. No one is interested in that, certainly not any woman.
Deal with your own problems in life, and on a dating site tell what you have to offer and what you're hoping to find.

I also don't really get why your on this site? You might be better of on a dating site of your own country and language to find someone.


hope that your critics are constructive... I would like however also some suggestions in order to chat with a woman or even date her. I ever used front photograph but everybody said it's ugly (maybe is it for chambered temples of head? I didn't know by people). Why are male photographs more important than female ones? However I tried dating services used from Italian women (although I'm not interested in hot photographs); but I fault. The ones eligibles were tinder and lovoo and match/meetic as scamproof and matchbased; I chosed meetic and tinder both free membership. On meetic free membership I could only sent likes/hearts to older women but no-one was interested; no tinder I couldn't be visible towards older women. I have obviously no chance with women of my age. Also I have to say that true life dating is unavailable because women consider me an obsolete male or a stalker. I have no criminal records.

Flybat's photo
Wed 12/15/21 05:23 AM

Nobody is going to be attracted when you're being so negative

Precisely! I don't think anyone wants to be with someone that reflects such negative thoughts. Your poor impression of the superficial aspects are a huge turnoff by referring to women in such a way.



Most of persons outside dating or love context said that I'm obsolete and poor of topics of talking. It's true that I lack an education; but I pretend to know where I've fault. Someone make me very embarrassed because I cannot see my fault. I think anyone has right to bewarned.

Merry's photo
Wed 12/15/21 05:38 AM
Most of persons outside dating or love context said that I'm obsolete and poor of topics of talking. It's true that I lack an education; but I pretend to know where I've fault. Someone make me very embarrassed because I cannot see my fault. I think anyone has right to bewarned.

Perhaps introspective work on yourself is necessary. You have quoted factors that people have said to you that are quite alarming and not favourable, but your initial thread was incredibly rude and disrespectful towards women. So work on yourself and hopefully with that will come a major attitude adjustment.
Good luck!

no photo
Wed 12/15/21 08:34 AM
If you decided off, then choice is yours,
don't go with the people flow an thier sayings,
Life is your an you have the rights like you feel.. Every thing has an end, so one day you be will be meeting before the end rest changes of person qualities is hard to improvise, time is an X factor of light in life.

All The Best :thumbsup:
Stay Positive

cleve's photo
Wed 12/15/21 04:45 PM
Edited by cleve on Wed 12/15/21 04:48 PM
MERRY, WAS RIGHT ON A LITTLE INTROSPECTION WILL GO

A LONG WAY.....MOST PEOPLE WHEN HAVING PROBLEMS

WILL NOT SEE THERE PART....THE TRUTH IS ''WE TEACH

PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US'' ....,WE DO IT BY WHAT WE

WILL EXCEPT OR NOT EXCEPT AND WHAT WE

VALIDATE......THE REASON ITS TO HARD TO FIX

EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS IS THE FOCUS IS ON THE SURFACE

NOISE AN NOT THE BELIEF SYSTEM AND FAVORITE

FEELINGS THAT IS CREATING ALL DRAMA IN THERE

LIVES........THE ONE PERSON MOST KNOW THE LEAST

ABOUT IS THEMSELVES....AND THE OPPOSITE

SEX,,,THERE EMOTIONAL NEEDS ARE NOT IN THE SAME

ORDER AS OURS......,

Ryan 's photo
Thu 01/06/22 05:35 AM
yeah well. saying " old & fatty" when talking about women will get you the cyber " kick in the balls"...from women
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