Topic: OVER THINKING
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Fri 11/12/21 07:44 PM
When you over think everything in a relationship you end up with hurting yourself. True or false ....

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Fri 11/12/21 07:56 PM
True, both are hurt. it's better to talk, communicate than to over think.

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Tue 11/23/21 05:44 PM
Weed will fix that problem

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Sun 11/28/21 10:26 AM

True, both are hurt. it's better to talk, communicate.


:thumbsup:

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Sun 11/28/21 10:36 AM
thinking is for thinkers .....
doers will do ... no thinking involved
as for me ... i am getting over my procrastinating issues.... just you wait and see!!!

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Sun 11/28/21 11:07 AM

thinking is for thinkers .....
doers will do ... no thinking involved
as for me ... i am getting over my procrastinating issues.... just you wait and see!!!


You continually crack me up :smile:


I do agree that overthinking everything will hurt a relationship. However, I think some men view an analytical mind as an overthinker. In my last relationship, every time I tried to discuss something with him, rather than listen he'd just say, "You're overthinking things." It was beyond frustrating and annoying, because majority of the time, I was just expressing my opinion.

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Sun 11/28/21 11:55 AM
When you over think everything in a relationship you end up with hurting yourself. True or false ....

When you seriously have a thinking of hurting then why to end the relationship an if before starting a relationship you never thought of it then why during end to think.

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Mon 11/29/21 06:20 AM
Overthinking in a relationship usually stems from you not having all the information needed to arrive at a conclusion which is acceptable.

Most of the time it is because you are trying to work out something by yourself which requires input from your partner.

One-sided relationship don't work.

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Mon 11/29/21 06:36 AM
I was guilty of overthinking in a different way. I was in a relationship with a woman who was a single parent like me. We ended up living together for a time. We liked each other but i don't think we ever loved each other. Just both wanted to be in a relationship so bad we tried to force it. Luckily we both recognized it and we able to remain friends along with our kids.

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Mon 11/29/21 11:15 AM
My previous relationship made me overthink so much that I could not sleep at night and I needed constant reassurance that he was being 100% committed. Boy, that was a waste of thinking!