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Just wanted to get everyone's opinion of my profile, not getting many people to write me, so I don't know if it's just me or something about my profile.
Thanks. xox |
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Honestly, the fact you only have the one picture up and your married could be a no go for many..
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Edited by
cleve
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Tue 11/02/21 02:34 PM
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Just wanted to get everyone's opinion of my profile, not getting many people to write me, so I don't know if it's just me or something about my profile. Thanks. xox ROCKY MARRIAGE, TO MANY PIT FALLS...MEN DO WANT TO RAISE ANOTHER MANS KIDS.... |
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So I shouldn't put all that in my profile? I'm just being honest as to what's going on in my life. I would rather be upfront that for someone to find all that down the road, it's not fair to them.
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Just the fact that you're married, rocky or not, would turn most people off, and some might take advantage of you.
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"ROCKY MARRIAGE" , who's isn't at some time?
Just be yourself!! |
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Just wanted to get everyone's opinion of my profile, not getting many people to write me, so I don't know if it's just me or something about my profile. Thanks. xox To Be Honest ,I don't check anyone's profile unless ... But I want to comment on your Photo Heavens will Not Forgive me If I don't comment on your Thread . ""YOU LOOK CLASS WHEN YOU WAER AN EYE GLASS ". Stay Beautiful , Stay Blessed on Mingle2. |
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I appraciate your honesty. But "rocky marriage" sounds a wee bit like looking for pity
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I'm sorry to ruin your "pity party", cause that's not what I'm here for.
I worked hard growning up to be on my own before I got married and I can do the same afterwards. But maybe all men are the same if they think that way, that they can treat their woman unappreciatively and still think everything is ok. |
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I'm sorry to ruin your "pity party", cause that's not what I'm here for. I worked hard growning up to be on my own before I got married and I can do the same afterwards. But maybe all men are the same if they think that way, that they can treat their woman unappreciatively and still think everything is ok. Don't get me wrong and take my input too personal. But you come accross a wee bit negative. Affection is missing? Rocky marriage? Time to make a decision, so if you don't get enough affection, call it a day and file for divorce. You have to be honest to yourself. |
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Well, if you're in a rocky marriage, then that's what you have to work with :)
But... you can change the way you present this in your profile. And also be a little clearer with what you want. Is that sex (only)? Or no sex but more the doing nice things together like going places, cuddling and so on? You don't have to be totally specific, but a bit more would help. And then start different, NOT with the marriage thing. For instance: For now I'm looking for a great person with similar interests in life for fun outings, and take things from there! I'm up for XYZ. (state a few things) Currently not looking for a regular relationship as I'm still in one. But I miss the fun and cuddles! That's basically the same as what you've written, but it has a very different feel to it. Also, fill out your interests, now it says "will tell you later". What you fill out there works as a link, like the tags on Instagram. Get a better profile photo. One that's clearer and has the outline of your face in it. |
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Thank you SparklingCrystal!
What you say makes total sense and I understand where you are coming from. I really like your approach. I truly appreciate your honesty and compasion in your response to me! |
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You're welcome! Good luck!
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