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Topic: shy guy
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Thu 12/27/07 10:01 PM
i dated a girl for 7 years all through highschool and college. not really sure how to go about meeting someone new now that i'm out of the comfort zone i've been in for so long. any advice???

ladyblack67's photo
Thu 12/27/07 10:02 PM
just get out there and dance!

sassyma's photo
Thu 12/27/07 10:03 PM
just go with the flow and enjoy it :wink:

sealove42's photo
Thu 12/27/07 10:03 PM
College church functions are great...

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Thu 12/27/07 10:04 PM
why don't you take a train out of that comfort zone and ask a pretty gal out?? LOL.

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Thu 12/27/07 10:05 PM
try a singles dance in your local area............

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Thu 12/27/07 10:05 PM
the flow has led me nowhere

WhiteSox0507's photo
Thu 12/27/07 10:08 PM
http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/56322

MiMedeiros's photo
Thu 12/27/07 10:08 PM
the more u look the less u gonna find... just chill and something will came up

TiffaIrishGirl's photo
Thu 12/27/07 10:11 PM

just go with the flow and enjoy it :wink:

I'm with that

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Thu 12/27/07 10:24 PM
Adam i too am a shy guy and this is what i have to say that you can take for what it's worth...

it's okay to be shy, don't don't let being shy stop you from attempting anything! It's better to ask, and be turned down, to never have asked at all.

...i've seen TOO MANY guys get girls that i could never understand how they got, simply because they had the guts to ask, so with that in mind i say to you... it's okay to be shy, but don't let your shyness stop you from asking that girl to dance, offering her a drink (as lame as that may sound or how fast it may get denied), and do NOT get discouraged from any denials... you see how many catches some of those fishing boats bring in? and they say there's one in the sea for everybody... boy that'll take some sortin out haha!

ok i'm ranbleing now, have a great night and good luck in your search!

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Thu 12/27/07 10:26 PM

it's okay to be shy, but don't let your shyness stop you from asking that girl to dance, offering her a drink (as lame as that may sound or how fast it may get denied), and do NOT get discouraged from any denials


Agreed about not getting discouraged about denials. In fact, go out and try to get turned down. It's harder than you think. But do NOT offer to buy her a drink. There are women that go out just to see how many drinks they can get for free. Besides, you shouldn't need to pay for her attention.

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Thu 12/27/07 10:29 PM
Thanks for the help guys..

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Thu 12/27/07 11:06 PM
You'll know when you want it bad enough to jump out there, ready to take on the task of an adventure, without fear of the unknown.

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Thu 12/27/07 11:07 PM
Wait, "Task of an Adventure"? You know what I meant! LOL

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Thu 12/27/07 11:48 PM
OK WHICH out of the 3 guys is you???huh

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Thu 12/27/07 11:48 PM
Do we get to pick which one???devil :wink: laugh

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Fri 12/28/07 12:05 AM
a tazer works wonders dude,try it sometime...

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Fri 12/28/07 12:11 AM
Edited by ErosJr on Fri 12/28/07 12:11 AM
Ok...(suprise, suprise!) I'm going to have to comment on this.
While being yourself is always the best policy, women tend to be attracted to men who are confident. Shy guys can sometimes be mistaken for less than manly. Shy is cute...But don't be afraid

...They can smell fear.

He he.

Good luck, man.

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Fri 12/28/07 12:14 AM
We can smell more than fear~!!!sick laugh sick

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