Of course, we all have a wish list ("Idealism is mendaciousness in the face of what is necessary" -Nietzsche ) and mine is a simple one. That is, there has to be an "In the beginning." - Genesis, and that is called a message 'response.' Let's just say the rejection rate ain't of my choosing. What have I learned from it? Well, it's called Life 101: Life is not for the faint of heart nor for the unattractive, as myself; also, being alone (loneliness "... is a dish best served cold.") is a "choice" destiny for most and a fate ("fickled finger of fate" represented as the middle finger) for others, including moi.

I am ONLY seeking a forever relationship, soulmate, audience of one, best of best friends, sandbox mate to shower mate. I am NOT interested in intimate pics, nor intimate cams, nor sex talk, nor impersonal hookups, nor impersonal encounters.

I need that someone who feels inspiration when I look at her, too. TWO who feel complete when together and miss each other when they're not. TWO who create a legendary life together and are content even if no one else knows. TWO who love their adopted kitty or dog as family. TWO who travel in adventurous ways together,  love the unknown and adversity. TWO WHO ADORE EACH OTHER and each other's grins.

Being on dating sites is the worst soul hurt one can imagine. And, yes, there is hypocrisy on my side too. I could only hope Trump experiences ("The horror... The horror...") this. I'm a Converse wearer and Left in politics. I travel a great deal, but essentially I'm a homebody with a picket-fence sensibility. If you could dig a person with presence, engageable and has opinions about everything (lol), then HELLO. It's all yada, yada, yada, if you don't like my mug. But if you think it might just be tolerable, HEY!

I wish I were a woman!
I wish YOU were a woman!
My soul feels empathy and joins your hurting to mine. Who really cares, other than you and I experiencing the pain?
I sacrificed physical togetherness for the sake of my sanity. I moved my life and all my belongings in my mind and went on searching for a virtual partner. One I can talk to and share with, what makes her feel joy and what makes her feel sad. What inspires her and what brings her down. One who would enjoy my yada, yada, yada and would enjoy "torturing" me back in kind.

I wish you luck in your search.
I wish ME luck in my search.
And I wish Trump would NEVER had computer access in his jail cell to experience even this!

Welcome II!

Sincerely,
III

Welcome
Slouch hats and raw honesty is very appealing. I hope you find who you are looking for.

Welcome to Mingle2.

Hi Quasimodo II, and welcome to the Mingle2 forums. Good luck in your search

A warm welcome from New Zealand when I think of Quasimodo I think of a courageous heart ...I see that in you but I also see vulnerable self limiting beliefs about yourself . Not sure what you are basing attractiveness on or what standard you are comparing yourself to . Attraction is unique .. as is your essence . Your “forever” will see YOU . Wishing you the best of luck

Welcome to M2, all the very best to you