why iam on this site you know I don't know. Don't want to go out and find some one at a club.I have not dated in some time, now it seems its all about date sites,, any advice thank you..good luck

I'm pretty sure finding someone at a club is not much of an option at the moment.

Advice? Have LOTS of patience. Be careful. If it seems to good to be true or something doesn't feel right then use your wits. There's a lot of people that use the internet for the sole reason of separating you from your money however they can.

There are also great people. I'd advise patience and utilizing the forums.

Good luck!

My advice would be to stay as local as you can on this international site. Meet up for coffee first with someone who interests you and see if there is that connection or not. Long distance relationships are expensive and lonely.

And fill out your profile too...

I agree with what Notlooking said, stay local to find someone near where you live.

Chat global and date local.

I am new to the site but i have a few rules for online dating that I live by.
1. Never lie about anything. It is like if i sell something on Amazon. I always want the product I am selling to be better than what I described.
2. Never send money to anyone you have not met in person.
3. Only chat with women you can meet within 6 months
4. If you are dating a woman from another country learn something about her culture, language and demographics. Basically do your research before you get on the plane.
5. Only meet women in countries that you would be willing to live in. Just in case she decides to return because she is homesick.
6. Do not meet the woman at the airport. Go to your hotel and get settled first. If she asks why just tell her that you are tired after a long flight.
7. Plan to meet her at a mall close by your hotel.
8. Do not let her know where you are staying. Tell her the vicinity.
9. if you plan to spend the night together do it is a separate hotel.
10. It is ideal if you can stay with her in her country for awhile so you can know how she lives.
If you are a woman meeting foreign men do the same thing but replace woman with man.



I do not have a problem travelling overseas to meet women. I am from the USA and have travelled to Sao Paulo Brazil, Santiago Chile, Phnom Penh Cambodia, Lima Peru, and Manila Philippines for a lady I met online. If she lives in Asia, South America or Eastern Europe I have no problem meeting her. if I am lucky and we become a couple I simply look for a teaching job so i can stay with her.