Is it ok to love more then one person equally?

What do you mean? Are you in love with two people? Are you married? Are you involved with both people?
It helps to give more info if you want replies.

What do you consider or mean by equally though? Will you set your love out on a scale each day and make sure its being divided equally? The human brain is quite capable of a polyamorous relation ship, the human heart, not so much. Some one will, at some point, disconnect to save themselves from a broken heart broken.
If you truly love some one, man up and pick a path, otherwise you run the risk of leading some one on and hurting them.

That depends on your definition of love.

To everyone of us love has a different meaning some it's purely physical others very mental Alot of things get attached to relationships because of this ,I'm not looking for moral guidance,thnk u though just asking opinions

Ok. Well I know I could fall in love with more than one man. But I would not, I think it will end in having to make a choice, unless you are a Mormon and can have many spouses, if you are a male.

Yup, sexist chit yet again...

Not sure where I see anyone attempting to give moral guidance really...
But you are giving mixed signals. You ask if it's okay or not, which has to do with moral.
You're not asking if it's possible which would've asked opinions.
So what is it you want now?

We cannot tell you whether it's okay as this depends on your own norms & values and often religion too.

Is it possible... I don't think so for the same reasons as what Electron said.

I also wonder... have you ever truly loved someone, and not the dependent "need to fill a void" kind of love? Cos I have and I know it's not possible to feel that for two or more people.

Everything is possible -but not everything is beneficial

It depends on what your heart feels, but also how you react to it; love has no bounds.

Biologically in the pair bonded/mating (romantic) sense?
No.
Multiple partners interfere with a specific process which influences deep association.

Any other meaning you want?
Sure.
As all other meanings are subjective to culture, group norms, social training and can be whatever you rationalize them to mean.
All kinds of different types and levels of social bonding.
Lots of people don't really understand them or themselves so just lump it all into "love."


I don't know.
Check your local laws and possibly tell/ask the multiple loved people?

I'm not sure it matters so much if you "love more than one person equally" so much as what it means in regards to behavior.

You don't really get any brownie points, you're not entitled to anything, or special considerations for "loving" multiple people "equally."
i.e. it's not a justification or defense for anything.


When everyone has a different meaning to a word, the word becomes meaningless.

When I read things like "to everyone of us love has a different meaning" it sends shivers down my spine as I'm reminded of people that stalk and rape/kill/harass people, or end up smothering and mutilating animals, spouting "I loved them so much I had to/I couldn't stand it!" or, "If they could just see how much I love them!"

I think that you can never love equally each aspect of the relationship brings different levels of bonding and mating between the individuals involved . And from each comes feelings of love for different reasons. I think what I want is my cake,AND I want to eat it to same old childish selfish baggage left over from childhood.

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Hello Tryn

The mind has the capacity for unlimited love ... when it comes to romantic love it is possible to love more than one at the same time .. .. The largest barrier to the success of such love is societal norms and religious influences .
When you compare romantic love with maternal love .. a mother can love her children equally (at least that is what my mum has always claimed ) , why does romantic love have limitations ???

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