Thought you said nude, nevermind.

mature friend..could you clarify what the difference is?
Because I think it would be subjective and vary.....like when you ask 10 people what they mean by "drama".....you get 9 different answers...



In the case of this woman, she identified loud, brassy, pushy, controlling as being a ‘strong woman’. In our 3 dates, she made a waitress cry by berating her for forgetting her creamer; she changed our whole second date without even mentioning it to me, after I had made reservations that she originally wanted; she always talked in a louder voice than needed, making it sound more like lectures than conversation. Whenever I would mention some of these things, her response was most men had no idea how to deal with a ‘strong woman’, who knew how to get what they wanted. I asked what happened to a two-way relationship, and she just laughed, which was the last straw.

I have no problem with saying she was a controlling, bossy person, which is not being a strong woman. A strong woman does not need to be large and in charge to be strong.

No... but if she asks me nicely for sex I'll probably say yes.

Nor does a *man* "need to be large and in charge to be strong"..

Alpha-type guys who feel the need to assert their "dominance"....those are really just jerks with insecurity/ ego issues..

Nor does a *man* "need to be large and in charge to be strong"..

Alpha-type guys who feel the need to assert their "dominance"....those are really just jerks with insecurity/ ego issues..

Very true, but one does not excuse the other. Both men and women who feel the need to be 'in charge' can be jerks.

Agreed.
Just wanted to point out that *that* behavior is just as off-putting in a guy....

Good Response.