hello all merry christmas.i just got out of a relationship and to be honest iam totally lost about being single. not quite sure what i have to do next.any advice

i would say your next step is to date......

My advice is to chill, hang with your friends, and meet some new guys before anything else happens. Hope it works for ya!!

It all depends on your outlook right now. If you think that all men are scum, id say stay away and hang with your girlfriend right now. If you think that it just didnt work out and have no fealing one way or the other, if you got your eye on someone id say go for it. If your tired of dating for now and/or want to take a breather just hang with friends. Either way you should probably take it easy.

Welcome to JSH

all you need is a friend,here you will be surrounded by them.

gail...

Hello and welcome to JSH, I hope you have a great time here...
It's sooooo much fun!!!! Enjoy the forums...

Hi and welcome to JSH The best advice I can give is to post in the forums. This way people here will get an insight of who you are.

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Use this time to find yourself if you havent already done this. Enjoy time with friends and family and when your ready you will find that special someone. Good luck in the hunt.

Yes, go on some dating site and meet some man to start a relationship with , before your over the other guy,
Then YOU can make this NEW GUY HERE think that YOU LOVE him.
And THEN you can get back with your old boyfriend and drop this NEW smuck and then break up with the old boyfriend again and come back to a single site and DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN....

NOT,,,,,NOT,,,,,NOT!!!!!!!

THAT was what alot of men and women on sights do.
YOU need to just pass time by meeting friends here with NO THOUGHTS right away of dating.
THEN allow them friendships to grow through time and find what you are looking for...
Just a lifer here, and my opinion...GOOD LUCK...

And MERRY CHRISTMAS and a happy and SAFE NEW YEAR'S!!!!

Welcome to JSH and have fun!!!

hi to all new to this working on uploading a photo

dont worry mr right will show up

All you should worry about right now is makin friends and see what happens. Dating is definitely something you should do but try not to rush anything. I've been single since October and it's been a blast! Most of the girls I hook up with end up being friends and sometimes a bit more (it helps on lonely weekends) but mainly I've been focusing on making friends and trying to figure out who I am as an individual. That's really what you need... a little bit of 'you' time. Once you get that straight then everything else will work out fine. Besides, most of us guys have hidden motives and tend to complicate things (just as several women do too) so don't get wrapped up in us just yet. Have fun and good luck to ya!

Welcome and Happy Holidays from Mississippi! Just start mingling and looking around to see who is out there and who you have the same interests in.