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I’m kinda new to this I been divorced now for a little over a year. Just don’t think I know how to get back in the game. The year was to make sure I’d never go back to her. I want to be able to give Sinai d new a real chance with me as I want with new lady.
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Are you ready to date again?
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maybwecan
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Thu 07/30/20 04:05 PM
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I’m kinda new to this I been divorced now for a little over a year. Just don’t think I know how to get back in the game. The year was to make sure I’d never go back to her. I want to be able to give Sinai d new a real chance with me as I want with new lady. Welcome to Mingle The "no answers" to the profile contents (especially the marital status and children slots) raises honesty flags, and availability and readiness questions |
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Yeah your profile is blank and if I'm wrong about this excuse me but you're 30 years old? I just can't buy that one and if I can't a lot of women won't......
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^^ That's the default age is someone didn't bother filling in their profile specially date of birth.
To OP: Who is Sinai and why even mention her name? First rule on dating is.. do not mention the ex. ok probably not the first rule, but tis a rule. lol |
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Just don’t think I know how to get back in the game. The year was to make sure I’d never go back to her. I want to be able to give Sinai d new a real chance with me as I want with new lady. You like that GAME, eh? That's bold! |
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Are you ready to date again? That is a very good question to ask oneself. If you're not sure, go out on a date or two (with different women). You'll know if you are or are not ready. |
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I’m kinda new to this I been divorced now for a little over a year. Just don’t think I know how to get back in the game. The year was to make sure I’d never go back to her. I want to be able to give Sinai d new a real chance with me as I want with new lady. I'm not sure what to tell you. My ex-bf was married almost 20 yrs when we met. I've been single most of my life so logically I was up to speed with dating in the 21st century. There was a big learning curve for him. In the end, I don't think he was ready. I think he needed more time to heal the wounds of his failed marriage and reconcile with that loss. I stay single by choice until I feel I'm ready. I'll meet some men, go out with them, and at one point, I will know if I'm ready. I've been single for 5 yrs now by choice. The initial reason was I had not healed from my break-up. The second reason is that I'm still working on my master's. My second point is to say you also need to know if you have room to fit a relationship in your life. Ask yourself if you are ready to put forth the work it takes for a relationship. I know I am not and that's why I have chosen not to pursue anything serious, which is why I make it very clear in my profile that I am not the relationship type. I hope that helps. |
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