Topic: How to start dating again after 20 yrs.
Nottheonlylonelyone's photo
Thu 07/30/20 02:32 PM
I’m kinda new to this I been divorced now for a little over a year. Just don’t think I know how to get back in the game. The year was to make sure I’d never go back to her. I want to be able to give Sinai d new a real chance with me as I want with new lady.

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Thu 07/30/20 02:59 PM
Are you ready to date again?

maybwecan's photo
Thu 07/30/20 04:03 PM
Edited by maybwecan on Thu 07/30/20 04:05 PM

I’m kinda new to this I been divorced now for a little over a year. Just don’t think I know how to get back in the game. The year was to make sure I’d never go back to her. I want to be able to give Sinai d new a real chance with me as I want with new lady.


Welcome to Mingle

The "no answers" to the profile contents (especially the marital status and children slots) raises honesty flags, and availability and readiness questions

ivegotthegirth's photo
Thu 07/30/20 04:17 PM
Yeah your profile is blank and if I'm wrong about this excuse me but you're 30 years old? I just can't buy that one and if I can't a lot of women won't......

mzrosie's photo
Thu 07/30/20 04:30 PM
^^ laugh That's the default age is someone didn't bother filling in their profile specially date of birth.

To OP: Who is Sinai and why even mention her name?

First rule on dating is.. do not mention the ex. ok probably not the first rule, but tis a rule. lol


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Thu 07/30/20 05:08 PM

Just don’t think I know how to get back in the game. The year was to make sure I’d never go back to her. I want to be able to give Sinai d new a real chance with me as I want with new lady.


You like that GAME, eh? That's bold!

feelyoungagain's photo
Fri 07/31/20 09:47 PM

Are you ready to date again?


That is a very good question to ask oneself. If you're not sure, go out on a date or two (with different women). You'll know if you are or are not ready.

feelyoungagain's photo
Fri 07/31/20 09:54 PM

I’m kinda new to this I been divorced now for a little over a year. Just don’t think I know how to get back in the game. The year was to make sure I’d never go back to her. I want to be able to give Sinai d new a real chance with me as I want with new lady.


I'm not sure what to tell you. My ex-bf was married almost 20 yrs when we met. I've been single most of my life so logically I was up to speed with dating in the 21st century. There was a big learning curve for him. In the end, I don't think he was ready. I think he needed more time to heal the wounds of his failed marriage and reconcile with that loss. I stay single by choice until I feel I'm ready. I'll meet some men, go out with them, and at one point, I will know if I'm ready. I've been single for 5 yrs now by choice. The initial reason was I had not healed from my break-up. The second reason is that I'm still working on my master's. My second point is to say you also need to know if you have room to fit a relationship in your life. Ask yourself if you are ready to put forth the work it takes for a relationship. I know I am not and that's why I have chosen not to pursue anything serious, which is why I make it very clear in my profile that I am not the relationship type. I hope that helps.