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I've never had a stalker. Should I be offended No. You should be blessed :) |
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Unfortunately, yes. Or have men continue to contact me after I've made it clear I'm not interested. I don't see that as stalking per se; rather as an insistent man who can't take rejection or somehow thinks I will change my mind. Luckily, there are block options nowadays. What freaks me out is how they track me down on apps like Kik or social media, why is why I no longer use social media sites other than professional ones. Here’s a solution. Tell them not to smash their heart over you like Jimmy Hendrix smashing his guitar. Either you have poor humor or don't understand what it's like to be stalked (or both). Stalking is horrific and can be debilitating. As far as someone pestering someone via phone or emails after you've made it clear that you are not interested may not be stalking in my book, but it is still a nuisance. Worse, there is no law to protect one from being stalked in this manner. Even if not harmful, how much fun do you think it would be explaining something like this to a new partner and assure him/her you are single and not interested in this nut? How do you convince your potential partner you're not crazy and he/she should stick around? If you're lucky enough, you can find someone. Hope that put things into better perspective for you. I see what you are saying. Makes sense. |
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I had two. One would not stop harrassing me by phone so I called the police and I guess he respected them and finally stop calling.
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I had two. One would not stop harrassing me by phone so I called the police and I guess he respected them and finally stop calling. Police are trained to solve sexual harassment. |
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Unfortunately I have had real stalkers .. most ended with police action ..... one I posted about here several years ago ., woke to find a strange man standing next to my bed .. he was arrested by the police and moved from the community . Can’t go into too much detail but he had a concerning previous record . What was most upsetting was that my two dogs not only did not bark but let a stranger enter my house .. was disgusted with them lol . Likely he had been feeding them / gaining their trust . A neighbour told me days before she had seen me in the distance on the beach and as I turned off into the forest ...a man who was the only other person on the beach followed where I turned into the forest . She said at the time she felt uneasy about it . I remind my fur babies frequently that they didn’t protect me lol and we still venture to remote places but now I am more aware of who is around .
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
on
Tue 08/04/20 01:54 AM
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Unfortunately I have had real stalkers .. most ended with police action ..... one I posted about here several years ago ., woke to find a strange man standing next to my bed .. he was arrested by the police and moved from the community . Can’t go into too much detail but he had a concerning previous record . What was most upsetting was that my two dogs not only did not bark but let a stranger enter my house .. was disgusted with them lol . Likely he had been feeding them / gaining their trust . A neighbour told me days before she had seen me in the distance on the beach and as I turned off into the forest ...a man who was the only other person on the beach followed where I turned into the forest . She said at the time she felt uneasy about it . I remind my fur babies frequently that they didn’t protect me lol and we still venture to remote places but now I am more aware of who is around . I vaguely recall you mentioning this. It sux your dogs didn't bark when you needed them to. Waking up with someone standing over you is scary as bleep. I put a medium size sliding lock on my bedroom door a few months back. It won't stop anyone if they want to come in but at least I will hear it as they now have to use force. I sleep very deeply, so I doubt I'd wake up at all. I hope you get to live your life stalker free!! 
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Yes I have been stalked before coming back home from college. A van was following me home home. I got scared and started to jump a few fence to get to my apartment
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Yes was a very scary experience to say the least
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Yes was a very scary experience to say the least That sounds serious, and seriously scary!
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I am tired of being the stalker. For a change I want to be the stalkee.
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Yes I was stalked on social media! Short time, then management deleted him off.
It was a relationship site Paid. |
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My stalker was an annoying idiot
for several years. |
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