I've always had a hard time "putting myself out there" in the dating world, so I was curious what other people do to meet potential partners, or just people in general.

I'm basically a hermit, most of my interactions come from my job or through the internet so my social life is practically non-existent.

Nearly 70 looks, but no answers. Probably not the best place for meeting new people advice, since many are here for the same reason, not meeting anyone out there.

I used job hunting to meet people, going door to door at businesses, chatting secretaries and reception staff while looking for work. No luck.
Hotel beer garden sunday afternoon bands were nice and casual. No luck.
Sunday markets have interesting people and store owners. No luck.
My experience is limited; hardly ever had a partner anyway, so I'm no help.
Try internet dating; I've heard it can work. Hasn't for me though.
Never give up.

I've asked on here how people met their exes. How and where.
Surprise surprise, most met their partners via family & friends, or sports club.
I must admit I had not expected the friends & family, hihi.

I also don't go out much, most of my life is at home as I don't work outdoors.
What can help is to get clear what you find important in a partner and for yourself. Once you know, go to places where these people hang out.
So if you like books, and like a partner who's into reading, learning etc, you could go to bookstores and strike up a conversation with someone.

It's also important to teach yourself to talk more to people everywhere, in the supermarket and any other place you come across people.
The more normal that becomes, the easier it'll be to strike up a conversation with someone you're interested in.
Much is about keeping the socialising muscle exercised so you don't feel awkward or shy.
Your energy also changes when you talk more to anyone and everyone. It becomes more open, meaning you're more approachable and feel more lighthearted.
You can even ask people for the time. Then expand on it, comment on their watch or phone, how nice it is.
Then go on to ask women only. And so on.

And again, go places more often, especially places where you might meet a woman with similar interest. So if pubbing or sports isn't your thing, you wouldn't go there.

Perfect answer, SparklingCrystal.
I wish we had upvote links on this forum, for situations like this.

Thank you, Igor!
And yes, sometimes you miss these upvote things, don't you, hihi.

nacci

I think it's scary for all of us, some more than others. Well, being a hermit is not going to help. You gotta get out there. You can start off by finding places where you can meet like-minded people. For ex., art galleries, car shows, concerts, etc. Suggest hanging out with your co-workers after work. Force yourself off the internet. If you force yourself out of the house, turn off your Wi-fi. Since you are on the internet a lot, find some groups that are like-minded and get together with the group. There are hiking groups, groups that like to debate, etc. I use meetup.com to make friends. Good luck!