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Topic: Does love has some boundary ?
Duttoneer's photo
Tue 03/03/20 01:11 AM

I see girls posting their half nudes .. to look se#y but the hell they don't know that a man like me doesn't love a girl for her body .... But the positive attitude .. not the nude but the heart ,... Why girls are idiot enough to expose themselves to be attractive :pensive::pensive::pensive:this world....


I agree nudity is extreme, but many women will on some occasions show some cleavage, it attracts and cheers us guys up. it keeps women cool and makes them feel attractive, it's a win-win result long may it continue in my opinion. :thumbsup:

Ladywind7's photo
Tue 03/03/20 01:33 AM


I see girls posting their half nudes .. to look se#y but the hell they don't know that a man like me doesn't love a girl for her body .... But the positive attitude .. not the nude but the heart ,... Why girls are idiot enough to expose themselves to be attractive :pensive::pensive::pensive:this world....


I agree nudity is extreme, but many women will on some occasions show some cleavage, it attracts and cheers us guys up. it keeps women cool and makes them feel attractive, it's a win-win result long may it continue in my opinion. :thumbsup:


Cleavage cheers a man up? Why?

Ladywind7's photo
Tue 03/03/20 01:39 AM
Edited by Ladywind7 on Tue 03/03/20 02:19 AM

If you put boundaries on true love, it becomes conditional love.

Y'all humans might be far more than the sum of what you might appear to be.

Every soul is learning at it's own pace. They all find their way at what they think might work for them. Sometimes it's a consistency that continues to work to a point. Maybe it stops, who knows. Who is anyone to judge that path... Those who do, put categories in boxes on others to make themselves more comfortable, and to "rise above" this or that.

If one thinks they are "further along" on the evolutionary process, well, good for them.... but the others might have a wisdom that the "furthers" would NEVER consider, as "they are above" that type of thing....

There's ten thousand years of experience on this site if half of us got together. In the jist of that, I know nothing. To me, that's a comforting thought.

I'm gonna listen, contemplate, and nod with a subtle smile.


Subtle smile :hugging:In a relationship of best friends/love we teach each other. We also want to make our loved one feel safe in our arms/wings. We talk, we work it out, because we are now one.
If something I do hurts my loved one, even if I am the more mature one, I will understand they are not there yet. Making boundaries together is healthy. They can wax and wane as each grows. The most important thing is your loved one needs to feel safe with you. That builds trust.
Keep your feet on the ground, no matter how far you soar...:smiley:

Stop denying yourself the love you deserve my friend :heart::ghost:




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Duttoneer's photo
Tue 03/03/20 05:13 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Tue 03/03/20 05:20 AM



I see girls posting their half nudes .. to look se#y but the hell they don't know that a man like me doesn't love a girl for her body .... But the positive attitude .. not the nude but the heart ,... Why girls are idiot enough to expose themselves to be attractive :pensive::pensive::pensive:this world....


I agree nudity is extreme, but many women will on some occasions show some cleavage, it attracts and cheers us guys up. it keeps women cool and makes them feel attractive, it's a win-win result long may it continue in my opinion. :thumbsup:


Cleavage cheers a man up? Why?


Maybe it causes some of us to think happy thoughts. A woman's best asset is a man's imagination. :smile:


Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 03/03/20 08:50 AM
All love is true love or it isn't love at all.

In a mate, there is no such thing as unconditional love.
Unconditional love means you love that person the same way no matter what they do or say. Without conditions.

In a reasonable scenario, it is easy to think its possible but people tend to be unpredictable.
Unreasonable scenarios do exist.
Anytime someone violates your core values the love you feel for them is affected. It changes.

What if your love turns out to be a secret child molester or serial killer.
It has happened to some people.
Maybe its something less severe like not liking someone in your family or someone prone to domestic abuse?
What if you find out the love they give to you is a lie they tell so they can manipulate you?

Then there's the fact that everybody changes over time.
Not only do they change, your idea of who they are to you changes too.
Sometimes it can make you feel love more intensly, sometimes it can make you feel less love for them.
The fact is, you change as you live and the love you feel changes with you.
What might have made you fall in love with them may eventually cause you to lose love for them because that quality no longer has the same value you once had.

Choose Wisely

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Tue 03/03/20 09:01 AM

I see girls posting their half nudes .. to look se#y but the hell they don't know that a man like me doesn't love a girl for her body .... But the positive attitude .. not the nude but the heart ,... Why girls are idiot enough to expose themselves to be attractive :pensive::pensive::pensive:this world....


I agree m8 it's shamefull behaviour. (shakes head sadly)

Hearken girls.:smile: You don't see us bloke, flopping out the ol johnson at every opportunity.laugh

feelyoungagain's photo
Sat 08/01/20 03:34 AM

I see girls posting their half nudes .. to look se#y but the hell they don't know that a man like me doesn't love a girl for her body .... But the positive attitude .. not the nude but the heart ,... Why girls are idiot enough to expose themselves to be attractive :pensive::pensive::pensive:this world....



And men aren't idiots sending dick pics? Because unfortunately that is now the nature of dating. That's how the word "sexting" came about.

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