When you meet a person and you go 'wow'...what is it?
For me, looks really are nothing. If he can make my mind go 'wow', I am considering him as a potential mate...

Looks are something but minds are more than something who are blowing your mind lol

The overall energy he exudes and his eyes as those truly are the mirror of the soul.
Some people have 'empty' eyes. A no-go for me. I need someone who has what I call 'the light on' in his eyes.

I have written many poems about empty eyes. Yes, eyes are very revealing.

I remember having empty eyes myself after a really bad relationship. At some point I looked in the mirror and saw that the light was back! I thought to myself "Yippiee!! I'm back, there's me again!"
A glorious moment :)

I have been there, but honestly I think my eyes read pain.
Is it not great to be free? Never, ever again shall we believe love is diminishing us, for him!!!

Oh wow Crystal, I am having de ja vu about this post. Love you gf

Haha, I like you pretty much too!!
Thinking back I believe my eyes were empty. Not because I was depressed or anything, just that 10 years with a narcissist had worn me out. Non-stop shields-up, walking on egg shells, always having to be on guard, abuse and abuse and abuse, being knocked...
To be honest it's a miracle I came out with my sanity intact, hihi.
To then see the Light in your eyes again... truly wonderful! It still makes me smile

For me, I’d have to say personality. If he’s engaging
and draws me in, and vice versa, it’s a wow.

Dammit, still can't sleep.... Sending you love from NZ and all the sheep too, lol

Amen Grace

Hey, personalities that are engaging, can destroy you...just saying and you know what I mean.
For me, actions speak louder than words. I was sucked in to a black hole by words. Never again!!!

This! Their smile too, especially when you see that smile in their eyes as well.

After all the above mentioned. I love a man's shoulders and arms. But I'm a weirdo...

Yep believe none of what is said and only half of what they do!

Oh yes, I'd forgotten that your way ahead of the rest of us, haha. Start counting those sheep, girl!
Sleep tight!!

I totally get you. It’s still a wow, but that’s doesn’t necessarily
mean it’s a lasting wow. The words need to match the actions
for it to...stay. Poetry in motion. :)

Lol, this has turned into a women's thread. Luv you guys, but I need sleep. Catch ya tomorrow girlfriends

I won't say...
Just that it's a nonphysical.

Hey girls! how goes it? I couldn't help noticing yous over here on your own.

I was just wondering. Does my arse look skinny in these

OT Totaly holistic for me. But the eyes reveal some of whats going on inside.
You can sort of tell a mood or attitude from the way the eyes move. And it's not so much the smile, as when and for what reason it appears.

Have you noticed that the more you like someone, the better they look?
Even if they didn't match your preconcieved notions of type etc.
All my partners have been totaly different looks wise, hour glass, wine glass, beer glass lol But each I found lovable. More for character, energy, wit, humour than looks, shape etc.

As said on other threads, A cute/pretty/attractive face/body can hide a multitude of psychosis..
Always check the chassis before purchasing..