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Topic: Likes, favourite buttons and things that go bump in the nigh
Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 39503	Sat 01/25/20 11:16 AM
You would think that u actually have a match, when you see the numbers come up on the screen... I have had up to 50.... but not a single message!!! What's up with that ?? Are they to shy to start a conversation Or are they thinking if they do , sex will have to be exchanged as well!!! Lol!!!

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Sat 01/25/20 11:28 AM Edited by Rock on Sat 01/25/20 11:30 AM
50 matches? That's impressive! I only have 10,000+ 'potential matches', and 2,700 actual matches. And, yeah... I've even met a few in person. Give it time. Online dating isn't like a fast-food joint. It takes time to build a masterpiece.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14975	Sat 01/25/20 12:03 PM
My matches are 2049, but I'm not sure who they all are !

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Sat 01/25/20 12:09 PM
50 matches? That's impressive! I only have 10,000+ 'potential matches', and 2,700 actual matches. And, yeah... I've even met a few in person. Give it time. Online dating isn't like a fast-food joint. It takes time to build a masterpiece. 2,700 actual matches? No fair, I've only got 2 actual matches About the same though for 'potential matches' OT... Just give it time Slim gym.

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 39503	Sat 01/25/20 12:36 PM
Only been here a week I think..... but thanks for the heads up ...

JulieABush Joined Thu 01/26/17 Posts: 3502	Sun 01/26/20 04:04 AM
Looking at mine right now I have 759 but you’ll notice that if you go to that page it’s blurry since you have to pay to look and be on that page, at least that the way it was when I first joined but I’ll look in just a moment to see if it’s still that way.

Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17181	Sun 01/26/20 04:20 AM
Tis not fair. I only count 735. Nobody likes me

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 39503	Sun 01/26/20 04:30 AM
I guess the numbers lie.....fakes galore and computer generated likes..... Are we being taken over by robots, even on a dating site??? Dang!!!

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sun 01/26/20 04:48 AM
I guess the numbers lie.....fakes galore and computer generated likes..... Are we being taken over by robots, even on a dating site??? Dang!!! Yes, no and Scammers are the answer to those three questions. Welcome

JulieABush Joined Thu 01/26/17 Posts: 3502	Mon 01/27/20 01:49 AM
Well currently now I’m at 764 and if you click onto “Who said ‘yes’ to you?” that’s the page that’s blurry.

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Mon 01/27/20 03:31 AM Edited by Unknow on Mon 01/27/20 03:31 AM
Only been here a week I think..... but thanks for the heads up ... ADivorceDone, you’ve been here a week from a hiatus and have a new screen name but you’re no stranger to the workings of M2... Welcome back.

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 39503	Mon 01/27/20 03:36 AM
Only been here a week I think..... but thanks for the heads up ... ADivorceDone, you’ve been here a week from a hiatus and have a new screen name but you’re no stranger to the workings of M2... Welcome back. Thanks Stormy....yup same ole guy with new name... had to change as I am in a new frame of mind.....

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Mon 01/27/20 03:49 AM
Only been here a week I think..... but thanks for the heads up ... ADivorceDone, you’ve been here a week from a hiatus and have a new screen name but you’re no stranger to the workings of M2... Welcome back. Thanks Stormy....yup same ole guy with new name... had to change as I am in a new frame of mind..... New frame of mind a fandamtastic way to be!

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 39503	Mon 01/27/20 06:23 AM
Only been here a week I think..... but thanks for the heads up ... ADivorceDone, you’ve been here a week from a hiatus and have a new screen name but you’re no stranger to the workings of M2... Welcome back. Thanks Stormy....yup same ole guy with new name... had to change as I am in a new frame of mind..... New frame of mind a fandamtastic way to be! Ya bet....

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Mon 01/27/20 08:23 AM
Even when I was looking I didn't pay attention to those numbers. It took about a year and a half till I found someone here but I did, we met and now we havbe a great personal relationship. I did, however, have to wander around thru the muck to find her. Now I'm here, on shore, enjoying the community forums. When we are with each other, M2 is the last thing on our minds. Choose wisely but make a choice. Otherwise, you just wander around in the muck.

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 01/27/20 08:55 AM
never checked... I said I'm not looking, so i'm sure it's zero.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21823	Mon 01/27/20 09:13 AM
I use a lighter.

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 39503	Mon 01/27/20 05:43 PM
The numbers go up while I am awake.... but are down when I am asleep... this I noticed!!

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 01/27/20 05:57 PM
The numbers go up while I am awake.... but are down when I am asleep... this I noticed!! The forums make you more visible to lurking Minglers, also being online makes you more visible. Hence the more messages whilst awake and less whilst asleep.

Slim gym Joined Tue 05/14/19 Posts: 39503	Mon 01/27/20 06:13 PM
The numbers go up while I am awake.... but are down when I am asleep... this I noticed!! The forums make you more visible to lurking Minglers, also being online makes you more visible. Hence the more messages whilst awake and less whilst asleep. So far I have come across no lurking Minglers... but all else you say is true!!!!