I just don't seem to be attracting the right type of woman for my needs, maybe I could improve on this with some guidance from the in house experts, all input greatly appreciated and will be considered



If you are tired of kissing frogs, then give Sir Dino a try..

Hi Dino, I'm not an expert but do have some suggestions.

Separate each of your interests with a comma. That will list them individually and make it easier for women to find you when they're searching by interests.

Also I would take out the sentence the begins with "if you aren't real", the one's who aren't don't read your profile anyways, and it's more positive to focus on the ones you want to attract rather than who you don't want in your life.

The only other thing I would suggest is adding one or two more pictures.

Hope that helps!

Hi River, thanks, much appreciated..

I would say the same. Stick with what you want, not what you don't want.

Also I say use fewer words. People don't read a lot these days so keep the message short and sweet.

I am a firm believer in "say what you want to say, then shut up and sit down".

^^ Noted and thanks for the input, muchly appreciated..

It's quite a lot of talk but it says nothing concerning dating, relationship. It's a few statements and advice on how to live. It's nice banter but not what will attract a woman.
Tell us who you are, and what you're hoping to find in either dating or love.
Also, if a man says something like 'looking to talk and take it from there', I'm not interested. Of course that's how it goes, but I want to know a man's intention: just casual dating, sex, serious relationship, or does he not know, and so on.
Quite sure you get my drift, you're smart and good with words.
Also the photo... what we always say on Mingle: no naked chest stuff... And I'd leave the political statement off a dating site too (on your photo).

Yea and don't dumb stuff like I do

Thanks Crystal, I don't think I'm showing too much in that photo ,yes maybe I should cool it with political stuff, but then again It's also part of who I am, do my interests not say a bit about me? but I will take heed of course.. Appreciate the input muchly, ta..

I gave it a few tweeks, hopefully I am going in the right direction.. And I am trying to hold off on the dumb stuff. M.

Way Kewl

Haha, I agree, it didn't show too much really, but bear in mind all the reaction on here from people concerning photos like that... Generally speaking it is not appreciated.
And the political stuff is indeed who you are, but that will show soon enough, or can shine through in other ways. After all you're looking for a romantic partner, not a political mate.
Oh, one more thing that came to mind, since we're in Europe... do you want to find someone in NI only or is the entirety of Europe okay or the whole world?
For a profile on here it might help to add something about that.

Anywho, good luck!

Nice one.. All taken on-board..:) I'm not restricted to Ireland so I guess your right I should mention that, but I don't wanna be too long winded either..
Thanking you again

I guess if you got it ya should flaunt it anyway..

It's a whole lot better than mine m8 And mine's a killer

Cheers bro, I did tweek it, seems to have worked too, got 29 super models think I'm handsome now, my old heart won't hold out at this rate, they only need the fare to come and join me..

Take out a loan m8

I'm afraid they aren't sincere though..

Apart from using my pics instead of your own and pretending to be from Cork

I don't really know how to help

What you mean, they're only after one thing? shameless Jezebels and grisettes