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Topic: Out dated dates
catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10858	Sun 12/08/19 03:37 PM
I've never had a guy ask me to "hang out". If I met a guy and we talked a little and he asked if we could get together and hang out, I would not consider that to be a date.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sun 12/08/19 07:57 PM
If I go on an a date, I INSIST on paying for myself. I don't want him to think he is entitled and I think it is fair. Times have changed.

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sun 12/08/19 10:02 PM
I check the box for the spoil date, but dates have a pretty good shelf life actually. I saw some Medjool dates today at Costco... I think i'ma git mee a box... Silliness aside, if I was a "dater" ....I'm all for equality completely........ but for "dating"... I think the man should pay for the date. it's just a nice thing to show respect. For me, If I can't pay, I don't do the date.

Raman Joined Sun 12/08/19 Posts: 1	Sun 12/08/19 10:08 PM
do you want to go with me

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Sun 12/08/19 11:13 PM
I think he could be straight Raman...

Pardeep Kumar Joined Sun 12/08/19 Posts: 1	Sun 12/08/19 11:26 PM
hell9

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Mon 12/09/19 12:59 AM
Here's what the Urban Dictionary says about the phrase "hang out"... http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hang%20out hang out Less serious than getting together or dating. Spending time with someone in the context of friendship or in the context of casually exploring whether you like someone as just a friend or maybe more than a friend. I think spending time together as friends just hanging out is a good way to know each other and see if you could stand each other's company. lol I agree, the definition here is my interpretation of what it means when someone says let's "hang out", at least one of my interpretations, lol. Like Cat said too, if a guy asked me to hang out I would figure he means get together and do something as friends, not an actual date. He could mean an actual date but is just saying hang out to avoid rejection... it is less intimidating to say "let's hang out" than "will you go on a date with me". The only way to know for sure is to ask for clarification.

ROBO Joined Sun 12/08/19 Posts: 1	Mon 12/09/19 03:02 AM
really

nishan001 Joined Sat 01/25/14 Posts: 1	Mon 12/09/19 03:02 AM
hii

frank4luv Joined Thu 12/05/19 Posts: 7	Fri 12/13/19 12:32 AM
I can be such a man . If only I find the right lady who deserves it .

crouge1313 Joined Tue 10/29/19 Posts: 12	Sun 01/17/21 05:57 PM
It's cheap. It lets the two people be casual and show their real selves rather quickly, instead of the very filtered selves shown on traditional dates.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Sun 01/17/21 06:14 PM
A romantic dinner at Chuck E. Cheese, Bowling, A pitcher of stale beer. What's not classy about that? Is that a genuine question? Hmm... you can at least make sure the beer is good! And make it a Mac. In your time on this site, have you ever seen me ask a genuine question in response to these threads?

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14981	Sat 02/06/21 06:38 PM
Why do guys wanna "hang out"? What happened to taking a woman on an actual date, open door, be a gentleman, not worried about getting your dick wet, an actual dinner and movie or bowling something besides "hang out" make plans!! There's still gentlemen out there! I've been out with a few !