If married man do external affair is it right or wrong

If there is an oath of fidelity in the marriage vows, then yes it is wrong. I can't remember which circle Dante placed oath-breakers in but it probably wasn't bad enough.

How external? Are you talking about a woman from outside your work or someone off-planet?

Only if he gets his wifes permission.

I'd be more concerned with the consequences than the judgment label.
I tend to be more of a pragmatist though.

I mean you can do something "right" but that doesn't mean your S/O, partner, community, parents, dog, whatever will see it as such or that you'll get any brownie points, or that you'll constrain their behavior to accept it because you're "right."

You can do something "wrong" but that doesn't automatically mean your S/O, partner, community, parents, dog, whatever will see it as such or that something positive won't come from it, or that you're inherently bad or deserve punishment.

So, personally, I'd try and look at what I want to do from the perspective of the people whose opinion on my behavior I actually care about (as opposed to random sampling a bunch of internet strangers), as well as look at myself, to figure out what I'm really trying to accomplish, and if so is it "worth" the consequences.
But I also make some assumptions. Such as anything I do will eventually be found out.

This is probably the right choice you should be making. Share the fun!!

A such a man should just get divorced if he isn't going to be faithful to his wife.

In some countries he may be flogged or even stoned to death , just make sure you are in a country that doesn't do this

Ask your wife's divorce attorney.

Is wrong you can do that only if your wife doesn’t satisfy your sexual desire

LOL

well she's gone so,,,

lol

that was a good one ...


I thought I always heard men and women ...
can be married and have affairs...

thought had to do with it is safe becouse neither ...
will want to get a divorce ... or be that involve with each other in that way ... other then sex... some think it is exciting ... playing with fire...


do I think it is right ... I did not want to ...
just have affairs with married men ...
I would want all the attention of one man ...
just as I would provide the same ...

Is this opposed to an 'Internal Affair'?
Are the cops involved?

simple............................... divorce, then play with who you want.

it's only prolonging the inevitable.... so eat the spiked frog and do it now before it turns into a spinosaurus.

If you're a heavy sleeper,
and your married wife goes all 'Lizzy Borden' on you
for being a cheat, is it wrong?

yea

Try wife doesn’t even try to satisfy you for 10+ years