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| Topic: WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT??? - part 2 | |
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Thu 11/07/19 01:17 PM
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The first two tiers, "physiological" AKA food, clothing, shelter etc., and safety AKA nothing that jeopardizes life are needs. Everything else aren't "needs". I don't need love but I may WANT love. I don't "need" esteem. Self-actualization is an ambiguous term/concept based on the motivation of individuals to achieve "full potential" which can't be measured. How does a persons motivation get measured? Who determines what the "full potential" for an individual is and how can a persons "full potential" be determined until death? Psychological theories are just that, they are theories. That is true when it comes to actual needs. I mentioned Maslow's hierarchy of needs mostly to be a smartazz to your smartazz comment  
However, even though people don't technically need love, attention, care, and communication in order to "survive", I agree with Crystal and Maslow's theory about these things being necessary in order to "thrive". Any ways, I'm not here for a debate... I'm here in this thread to make comments on what I want, not what I need or . Right now, I want the new recipe I'm cooking tonight to turn out good. As far as what I want from a man... someone who simply adores me. 
Oh, one more thing or maybe two  ... he's single and close to my age.
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A woman needs care, love, attention, your time and communication. Both men and women need that. The topic is what women want, not what they need. 
Again... we're all individuals, to know what a woman wants, you'll need to ask the particular woman you're interested in. Right now I want some hot apple cider
You're wrong, I don't need any of that stuff.
According to Maslow's Hieracrchy of Needs... I am right! 
https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html Maslow's Hieracrchy of Needs is an antiquated psychology theory and is illustrated as a pyramid which is the way a Ponzi scheme is illustrated.
Yeah, 'they' say that these days, like they used to also say that 'grandmother's wisdom was BS'. Then decades later science discovers that grandmother was right. Of course she was, it was based on knowledge that often goes back hundreds of years. They don't give grandmother credit either, they take it all. Now the Maslow Hierarchy pyramid is bull. I ask, really?? Can someone come to self-actualisation, a healthy sense of belonging, strong self-esteem and so on when they haven't got the first tier sussed? I think not! The man was spot on and there's nothing antiquated about it. 
The first two tiers, "physiological" AKA food, clothing, shelter etc., and safety AKA nothing that jeopardizes life are needs. Everything else aren't "needs". I don't need love but I may WANT love. I don't "need" esteem. Self-actualization is an ambiguous term/concept based on the motivation of individuals to achieve "full potential" which can't be measured. How does a persons motivation get measured? Who determines what the "full potential" for an individual is and how can a persons "full potential" be determined until death? Psychological theories are just that, they are theories. So you think that you would've survived if your mother didn't feel love for you in some form or other? You reduce humans to less than animals as even animals show love and care. If we couldn't love, people would still fornicate -that's all it would be-, babies would come from it and mothers would simply leave them be because they wouldn't love them, and couldn't care less to what happened to it. Maybe even kill it herself to be done with it as without love it's a burden. People would kill others just like that too. Why not? If you feel no love, get no love, we stop caring. No self-esteem? You'd be 100% depressed -when without love too btw- and you'd likely take your own life before your 17. Maslow's hierarchy is based on what human beings need in order to feel well. You cannot remove even one tier. You can, but it will seriously affect someone's sense of well-being. |
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Hummm not sure what other women want for our wants are all different within life..
Myself someone that the connection is there and both enjoy many of the same things as well as our own things we like to do. Respects that others all need alone time... Of course like most a comfortable life and a place to call home.. With the Freedom to be who you are..... Too many think that all just want money sure that will by all your wants/needs but it is the feeling of family/friends around is what tops it all off.. Many times what most want is to feel wanted~~~~ 
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...where are the women who really want to help their new guy friend get really really Good at full body massage, simply to be beneficial in modern times?
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If I knew- I'd be WAY gone for this site !
Being on this site IS a horror - but, remain hopeful LADIES- Is my profile page "OK" - any comments ? Thanks ! ED |
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care, love,☺
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...where are the women who really want to help their new guy friend get really really Good at full body massage, simply to be beneficial in modern times?  This topic is about what women want, not what men want.
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If I knew- I'd be WAY gone for this site ! Being on this site IS a horror - but, remain hopeful LADIES- Is my profile page "OK" - any comments ? Thanks ! ED Dude, this isn't the rate-my-profile forum. |
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helloo dear
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Feed us tell us we are pretty
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A really really good toilet that removes poo smell when flushing.
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Am also interested in knowing what they want. Cos I judge by what I want when dealing with a woman but it always backfires.
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Honesty
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Ask her. We are all different.
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indeed
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attention seekers
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hi
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Sometimes it’s hard to tell? Am I wrong?
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1.play games 2.money 3.rich car 4.your rich house 5 joy
6.only sex 7.traveling 8.to be "myself ", with or without child (one child) 9.to be in center.... Maybe serious relationship...... Etc |
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We want love and care
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