I've been getting flack about my rejection of single mothers for anything long term (I'll likely get flack here too) from (you guessed it) SINGLE MOTHERS.


It's not simple disapproval either, it's vicious and hostile, and if there weren't a child restraining their actions, I'm certain they'd get violent.

...but I'm still not wrong. Single Mothers, This is REALITY:

1: EVERY man sees you as "used goods" that comes with an extra burden that was the result of your poor judgement when you chose to breed with someone you had no intention of staying with.

2: When you make excuses (He was psycho and abusive, etc.) it only reinforces the notion that you have EXTREMELY poor judgement.

I get that your lot in life sucks, but speaking as someone who's educated, literate, employed, healthy, and productive, I think this sets me above 98% of the males on here, and thus gives me the standing to say "you don't make the grade". It's my right to do so, and getting mad at me for your mistakes only serves to prove that point.

I GET TO BE PICKY. You don't.

(Begin outrage now)

I think this site has mainly old folks, so not many to argue with you.

Just so you don't feel you wasted your time:
U mysogynistic chauvenstic so and so, nag nag nag nag nag nag nag nag nag You're on the couch forever. Can you open this jar and fix that thing.

Hey I am interested in u

which one charan?

codec or notbeold?

Single mothers, I guess?

Wow we get it you don't like single mothers~~

We all have our preference... At my age I don't date guys with little kids..or ones that are arrogant, look down on others or think they are at the top of the Dating chain~~~

But to actually put it out there you are speaking for all Men Got news for ya they have a mind of their own and know what they prefer.. There are actually a lot of men that never had a family that would date single mothers.. As well as those that have kids.

Yes I'm a single mother and have been since my kids were 7 & 9 not once did I date any guy that thinks the way you do..

Which is fine we all have our own choices of whom we would and would not date.. Just no sense in putting single mothers down.. It is not a easy job to raise kids on your own..

Humm even as a single mother I'm educated,literate,employed,healthy,productive, own my own home which I bought by myself... Both of my kids are grown with good jobs and kids of their own.. So guess your not the only one in the 98% group but ohh I'm a single mother so maybe that puts me in the 99% group...

Guess the difference for me is I don't go after those half my age and expect them not to have kids~~~

And yes we all have the right to be picky~~~~~ when it comes to dating.

I've noticed that the ones that have the holy then tho attitude are the ones that are the most frustrated with life.. One does not have to put others down to be noticed.. Yes it will get them noticed but not the way they expect..

Well said TxsGal… and much nicer and better than I would have put it

1 i have never looked at a lady that way (i norm feel bad for the father, if they ever wake up and learn what they are missing, sadly most dont)
but its all good , i know it takes a lot to step up and fill the shoes in a child's eye

wonder does that count for widows as well, guess that was a poor judgment in your eyes as well, they should have picked someone that wasnt going to die or get killed

i dont know of any single mothers that made a child thinking the father was going to walk (not including lady's carrying kids for another)

2 guessing you have never been blinded by love , willing to over look things that you look at later and go what the blank was i thinking (and wouldnt have over looked if it was a someone you where not dating or married too)

any who good luck on your rant
hope it yields you lots of treasure

I agree with River that TxsGal covered what I wanted to say nicer than I would have.

I started to reply but deleted it because I couldn't keep it PG13! The only thing I would like to add is that for someone who claims to be educated, he sure comes across as narrow minded.

Ouch....

Many people, even more different attitudes. It is a delicate subject.

But for me, the most important thing is, that the kids are able to accept the new partner. My ex wife's son did, the wee lad adored me ... but the rest of the mafia got jealous about it

There are 2 very different situations among "single mothers". There are those who were in a family or married situation and after a few years, the relationship fell apart resulting in her being alone with children to raise. We should not be considering these women as being irresponsible. There is a good possibility they could become a solid future partner.

Then there are those who carelessly have sex with the losers of the male population without practicing responsible birth control. They tend to have babies for the taxpayer to support. Personally, I think they should be required to have chemical birth control in order to receive any taxpayer support. If I were a younger man, I would avoid getting involved with this group in any way! Nothing but trouble!!!

My ex would fit into category 2. Though she had one big problem. Her family is old fashioned, thinking contraception is something sinister.

I would love to meet a single lady with children. Just no older than say 10 because the older they are the less accepting they are and will make it difficult. Hell, I would even date a Pregnant lady as long as I was not the Financially responsible for the Birth and didn't have to be there during the birth to mentally scared for the rest of my life.....

And does your wife know you're on a dating site and seeking a long term relationship? Hmmm......

I feel sorry for your wife OP

That puts the icing on the cake. Köszönom