It's driving me nuts. I've always thought it's more important to have fun and be happy together.

am I gay?

Because that is the ultimate prize..may not be ALL he wants-but every man entertains the thought of "hitting it"

yeah but people like to b*$#@...OOPS i mean complain

twice

As do the females.....but they have a slightly, and i emphasize SLIGHTLY, different version of "hitting it". You gotta eat, you gotta sleep. But Males and females are actually more similar in that line of thinking than you would think. I think behind all that animalistic crap we are all looking for that "one" special someone

you sound like one of them gays..............haha just kidding

the reason girls think that way is because that is what most guys want, its a logical assessment of reality. most guys are ****s. We have a similar stereotype against them, I am under the impression that most girls go for guys who are ****s. Seriously how many nice girls do you see get treated like crap and your always thinking to yourself, I am 100 times better than that dueschebag

because most of the time that is what guys want as they have a big ego and they think there mister macho themself which turns me off...... there ego gets the best of them and there macho side SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!

I don't mind the occasional "booty call" But, the ultimate goal would be to find someone I can have a conversation with, laugh with, and just have a good time...the good sex is just a big bonus. Most guys want to see if they are compatible in the bedroom first-most woman want to see if they are compatible in other areas first...

your profile states just want someone to hang out that sounds like teenagers saying that. but your not one... your grown man that has feelings and thoughts and nothing is wrong with hanging out as long as your thoughts arent on something else and if thats the case you would make a lady happy..

My profile also states my reason for just wanting to "hangout". I enjoy socializing and meeting new and interesting people. Too many people want to find the "love of their life" right NOW. Instead, my MAIN focus is school. I one day would love to become a physician. So when i say that i want to "hang out" i don't necessarily mean that i don't want a relationship. The truth is i know we all do. But what im saying is that there is no pressure. In no-pressure situations its easier to stay "drama-free".

Men think this, men think that......come on ladies....you know you do too. You're just a little more discreet than us men.

I can be discreet

Dude, you ROCK!

I'm not a bed hopper-I'm a woman with options!

Because all men do. Life is a game and all men do is either tell you straight out that all they want is sex and then if you want the same then it is "on" or they come at you with this "I want to settle down and be with one person and I love you **** I mean stuff and all that then when you give them some you don't hear from them ever or if you do they are rude and disrespectful and tell you ****i mean stuff like don't call my baby mama house no more so that is why women think the way that they do. If you don't think or do things that way then yes you are gay. But whatever I don't have time to try and figure out what is what and what goes where i do what I do for the reason that I want to do that so if I want a one night stand I know where to go and get one and then if I want a realtionship I **** myself. Men are not what they use to be. At ALLLLLL they play games and say that they are going to do something and then when you call and see if they are still going to do it they happen to not answer their phone or are out of the calling area so I say live and learn and not everybody is the same but men are.

NICE!!!!

You go girl

Look, you women aren't innocent!!! I've met more than one women that played the games too. More than one that was more immature than my 4 year old. It's not just men. That's all I am saying.

god i hate man bashing, reminds me of a lot high school